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Miss You Issues: Attractive Friends & Far-away Lovers
Dear Miss U, I've been in a LDR for 11 months now and I'm seeing my girlfriend for the first time in 5 months in about two weeks. I'll be with her for 3 months which will be amazing. I am currently at college and a lot of people think I'm odd for being in and LDR which has never bothered me. I have however developed feelings for a girl who lives in the same building. I'm not truly tempted by cheating because the idea of throwing away what I have with my girlfriend to chance it on someone ne... -
Miss You Issues: The Evil Distance
Dear Miss U, My man and I had been dating for almost 2 years now, and all but the last 6 months we have been together. We were in the Navy, and I went back to my home state after I got out to wait for him. Last month he decided he was going to stay in California for a year after he gets out to do a "shock therapy" to improve our communication issues (he hates texting and I am not the best at calling). We recently had an issue because I didn’t call him back after he called me one night whi... -
Miss You Issues: Quick Questions for May
Dear Miss U, I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and 8 months, of which we're on to our second year of long distance in. We see each other quite a lot, every 3 weeks or so for a weekend, as I fly home. I'm currently studying away from home and he stayed there. Recently he's been saying that he "doesn't like long distance" and when I ask him if he wants to break up he says no. He says he loves me, but that he isn't happy with long distance and can find texting a hassle (we text all day... -
Miss You Issues: Grief & U
Dear Miss U, My boyfriend and I got together 6 months ago. He actually lives in the same town as my sisters and some of my best friends so we have a lot of friends in common. I fly to visit him pretty often and in the past six months since we've been together (the relationship started online) we've seen each other on about 4 occasions. He was extremely close to his grandmother, who actually lived in the same country that I do. He's told me that she was more of a mother to him than his own mot... -
Miss You Issues: Faithfulness & U
Dear Miss U, My boyfriend and I met when he was studying as an exchange student. We dated for 3 months and a half before he had to leave to his home country. He lives 12 hours away by flight. It has been 3 months since he left. We have a good and happy relationship. We Skype every day for the last 3 months he is away. However, I can feel that I am longing for intimacy more and more; and last night when I was out with my girlfriends to a night club, I kissed another man who I was dancing with but it... -
Miss You Issues: Romeo & Juliet
Dear Miss U, I know this relationship is worth it. We wait 6 months or more at a time to spend 2 days together. But the thing is our parents are in control of us. We can only see each other when our parents want to. We live 3 hours apart so our relationship is being dictated by them. When and how we see each other. And it hurts most now because I saw him last weekend and I feel as though the pain will never go. It hurts the most now, than it has ever had before. I feel like I want to g... -
Miss You Issues: Realistic Expectations
Dear Miss U, Hi, I've been in an LDR for 3 months. We have an age difference, but we get along so well. We haven’t met in person yet, but hopefully we will this month. The thing is when we met online he was all over me (Facebook, messenger, and text... always read my Facebook posts) and was the most sweet and romantic guy in this world. I didn’t plan to fall for him, and at the beginning I also told him every time he said he loved me I told him I was not real. But we fell in love and we were... -
Miss You Issues: In The Beginning
Dear Miss U, My girlfriend and I met about two years ago over Facebook, we've been on and off since then but the thing is, we never met. We Skype every day, talk on the phone every night, send each other gifts and other sentimental items in the mail, and do whatever we can to keep our relationship alive. We get a lot of hateful comments from people such as, "What 'relationship?' you're dating online? Get a life." We don't consider our relationship to be an online thing. Yes, that's where we me... -
Miss You Issues: Talking It Out
Dear Miss U,
How to open up on the phone when he says I'm not expressing my feelings?
From Suzie Dear Suzie, Sometimes the simplest things are the hardest. The first things to consider are: Are you expressing your feelings? Do you feel like you are holding back? At the end of the conversation are there things you wish you’d been able to say? Or do you think he’s looking for something that just isn’t there? Some people just aren’t emotionally gushy people. So... -
Miss You Issues: Military Emotions
Dear Miss U, My husband and I are used to the long distance thing, as the two years we were dating we were half way across the country from each other. We are both used to deployments too, since he deployed while we were dating last year. But now that we are married, I am living in Arizona in our apartment alone while all of my friends are in Wisconsin. I have a few friends here but I don't really feel like I can open up to them yet. He can only call and talk to me on the phone for about ... -
Miss You Issues: Bored & Waiting
Dear Miss U, So, I've known him for 3 1/2 years now. We were just friends with benefits at first, but of course I started to fall in love with him. He had his problems in life and it hasn't been an easy road for him. I've accepted him and loved him regardless his faults. He asked to be with me last year and of course I said yes. We were together for about 3 months and he broke up with me saying he needed time to get his life together. It was hard for me because I waited so long to be with him... -
Miss You Issues: Marriage & Doubts
Dear Miss U, I love my boyfriend Elijah so much. We have been together on and off for nine years now. We are in a long distance relationship, and although it’s challenging we still try to make it work. We try to talk on the phone, txt and video chat by ooVoo and Skype and that helps. Sometimes I wonder if our relationship will last since the distance is our only issue. I also wonder if we will ever get married. We have talked about marriage but I have doubts for some reason. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!... -
Miss You Issues: More Quick Questions
Dear Miss U, My boyfriend lives in England, and I live in the US. I love him very much, but I'm having issues with him right now though. He said "I love you" to me several times, but now he's told me that he only said that to make me happy. I don't know how I should respond to this. I also feel like he's not really putting any effort into this. I suggested we try a whole bunch of the activities on the site, but he always says no. I just want to know if you think that it would be worth sticking th... -
Miss You Issues: Culture & U
Dear Miss U, I'm not entirely sure what to do in this situation. To my girlfriend, school has always come first to her because it is all she knows. To her getting good grades so she can one day get a good education is the most important thing to her. I was perfectly fine with that and I support her fully... But now the circumstances have changed. When she told her parents about me and how she wanted to study in Canada, they immediately disapproved. They threatened her with taking her out of ... -
Miss You Issues: Travel & Money
Dear Miss U, My boyfriend and I met online and had an instant connection. We've been together for over a year now, and yet we have not yet visited one another. He keeps saying that we're going to do it soon; however it has not happened yet. He's a single dad, and scheduling and finances have been an issue. I have offered to come see him, and he continually says ok, we'll make it happen. It hasn't. He keeps alluding to our future together, and us being married, but that would mean we would ha...
