Taking a break had been in question for some time but it never seemed like it was right for us (in addition to the fact that we both do not believe in taking breaks). He really needed some time to sort out some things in his own life. Me, I'm using the time to get my thoughts together so we can have an in depth discussion about whether or not this will work and what we can/will-can't/won't do from this point on.
We didn't change our Facebook relationship status or unpair on Couple or anything like that. We just won't be talking everyday. I still have to email him everyday and when he wants to talk via phone to me he can message me so we can make it happen. As far as I know, there is to be no sexual or emotional involvement with anyone else. This is supposed to last for a month...which means that our 5 year anniversary is being skipped? I'm not even sure how that works.
It was hard for me but I suggested it. I told myself that whatever is to happen will happen. You know, let them go and if they come back it was meant to be, kinda thing. Also, absence makes the heart grow fonder- at least I believe if there is something real there.
If all goes well, we will be attempting a fresh start at the end of this break. I think that would be great. So, I guess I'll just do what I can do be ready for that result.