Long distance relationship advice. Articles written by people in long distance relationships for people in long distance relationships.
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Miss You Issues: Issues To Figure Out
Dear Miss U, My ex recently left for college and I stayed back home studying. We were in love, he gave me a promise ring, he even asked me if I would marry him in four years. We were doing good, it just had been a month and a half since he left but one day he called and said it wasn't healthy for him because of how much he missed me so he wanted to end it but after a few hours he called crying and I accepted him back. A week after he ended it again. Said something had changed, there was no spar... -
Miss You Issues: Nothing Unreasonable
Dear Miss U, I have an incredibly special relationship. We met in dreams before we ever connected (online), we share the same sense of humor, same taste in music, same ideals and even the same thoughts. If I feel an inexplicable emotion, it's more than likely because he is. If he gets hurt, I feel it in my own body before he even tells me. We became very close friends early on, and then that matured into the most profound love I have ever felt for another human being. It's scary and beautiful a... -
Miss You Issues: The Time Has Come
Dear Miss U, My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months now the last time I wrote to you was in march 2015 that was the start of our relationship, you advised me to wait at least one year then I could start planning the trip to Germany in two months will be one year, I'm thinking to travel in January in January 10th Will be his birthday. I have been saving money lately, the last time you advised me that I was old enough to make my own decisions, and I'm still maintaining to that, I hav... -
Miss You Issues: Seeing The Light
Dear Miss U, I have been talking to this guy I met online 2 months ago... I am just confused with what he is really up to. We started being so mushy mushy and we kinda got so hot one time... he even said regards to my family. However, when I asked him about relationships, I found out that he is not a fan of long distance relationships. He is a very frank person. He tells me when he is depressed... he tells me when he is not feeling well.. He tells me when he is busy and all... he tells... -
Miss You Issues: You Know Nothing
Dear Miss U, Over the summer in Mexico I meet the most amazing guy ever his name was Edwin. Although he had a girlfriend but I didn't care because I also had a guy in my life that I had meet earlier that summer. I cheated on him one night with the Edwin. Yes I told the first guy and in the end I broke up with him. I was so dedicated to Edwin and still am. Everything's been going perfect. He's even meet my parents who absolutely love the kid. They even already bought my ticket to Mexico for Decembe... -
Miss You Issues: Insert Effort Here
Dear Miss U, I met this guy in my home town back in April. I never expected for it to go this far. I live far away from him but we ended up kissing, I was only in my hometown for 2 weeks. However, I went back for 2 months in summer, I completely fell in love with him, much more happened than just kiss. Since I have got back though I feel like I am annoying him, I feel as if he doesn't want to talk to me. He mentions other girls but then says he is joking and likes to see me get jealous. Am I being ... -
Miss You Issues: Probably Not Cheating
Dear Miss U, It's been not long over a year and every day I fall for my significant other just a little more, I love them so much and they are soooo important to me. But it's been so long, we rarely get to video due to the 8 hour gap and although we message every night for as long as possible, the distance is really starting to hurt. All I want is my partner in my arms for the first time or even just their hand but with so many commitments to ensure a positive future, it's difficult to raise th... -
Miss You Issues: A Family Apart
Dear Miss U, I had to move from where I have lived with my boyfriend of 8 1/2 years because the town did not have the doctors that I needed to see for my health problems. My boyfriend and the father of my 2 daughters decided to stay there. He says it's because he did not want to start over some where new. So we are doing the long distance thing and I really don't know how to handle this situation. It is making me feel like he doesn't care about us at all. What should I do? Karen... -
Miss You Issues: Raise Your Standards
Dear Miss U, I met my boyfriend online we've been constantly messaging and our first actual meeting was when he came to visit me. We been together for about 10 months. I met his parents on skype, and his friends. We had same common interest. He stayed for about a month, until then when it finally started our long distance, we message, and do Skype calls. Here is the thing I am from the Philippines & he is from South Korea. Our love is strong. And we talked about our future together. My only con... -
Miss You Issues: Heavy Thoughts
Dear Miss U, I've been in a relationship with a girl I met online, she lives in Canada and I live in England. We've never met in person but we're really close, or at least we were. The distance has always been a huge issue that we've struggled to talk about and we've both been made very upset by the fact that we may not meet for a while. I've very recently had the courage to tell my parents about her and they were surprisingly okay with it, even suggesting she came down. Needless to say we w...
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Dear Miss U, I have been having a tough time going through the distance. I love my boyfriend with all my heart, and I want nothing to come between us, but that is very difficult with my parents. My parents are very strict, I can't make any decisions in my life, and when I try to make a decision, I am usually yelled at and hit. Making me more and more depressed. The worst that has ever happened is that I have been choked by my own father by a decision I tried to make. Me and my loved one talk on...
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December 13, 2015, 09:40 PM -
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Dear Miss U,
I recently realized I had to move away from my boyfriend of 3 months, I want to know if there's anything I need to know about starting a long distance relationship? My boyfriend knows and really wants it to work as well.
Zelda Dear Zelda, I feel the only thing people need to know about starting a long distance relationship is that you need to treat the relationship and your partner the same, regardless of proximity. That means making time for ea...-
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December 10, 2015, 10:21 PM -
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Dear Miss U, Me and my boyfriend have only ever met once and he proposed to me to be my girlfriend through phone calls. He's currently out of town because of his thesis and his work, and we haven't seen each other for half a year. We are both Cancers and very affectionate and I know he loves me, but sometimes he does this thing every month where he says that he is tired of our conversations everyday that seemed too monotone for him. He wants me to contribute more to the conversation and I swear...
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December 8, 2015, 05:27 AM -
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Dear Miss U, Recently you gave me advice on how to deal with the pain caused by such a large distance. It was fantastic advice and worked well but unfortunately I find myself in need of your advice again. I have been paying for a trip to India through an organization called world challenge and they are offering a once in a lifetime opportunity that could even help me get jobs etc. in the future, although it costs a lot of money and keeping up with payments can be stressful. I've also been lookin...
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November 30, 2015, 10:16 PM -
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Dear Miss U, My partner and I both want to move in together since we have both had our fair shares of long distance relationships. He is trying to find a job here with no luck (he hates his job). I might have found one for myself in his town, and his family is way more supportive than mine. I am going to a tour around that prospective job in his town but I am dreading it. My current bosses are so nice to me. They even got my partner an interview here. My biggest concern is they just fin...
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November 26, 2015, 10:06 PM -
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Dear Miss U, The distance just makes things hard to fix. It seems I'm being a crappy girlfriend. I haven't been the best lately. I feel it's because I have resentment held. We've discussed it & it just hasn't gotten any better feeling for me. He has issues with my sexual style compared to his, but it's mostly about what's wrong with me. The other night over Skype, I was telling him about my chiropractor appointments to help my chronic muscle tension. Since the beginning, we've disc...
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