Long distance relationship advice. Articles written by people in long distance relationships for people in long distance relationships.
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Miss You Issues: Talk It Out
Dear Miss U, I currently live in California and he lives in North Carolina. I'm officially closing the distance and moving to NC at the end of this year. However, I am moving to VA with my grandma in a few days. I will only be 5 HOURS away from him! I flew out to visit him earlier this year in March and that trip was VERY expensive for me and hurt me financially. I was planning on taking a train down to see him next week, but unfortunately plans changed because my grandma isn't exactly co... -
Miss You Issues: It's Not In His Kiss
Dear Miss U, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and about a year and a half ago he went into the Air Force. At first it was really hard and I didn't know if I could handle it but I got over it and everything was okay. But recently I've been having second thoughts again. I feel like its a lot more trouble than it's worth and I'm not sure I could handle it for 4 more years (that's when he'll be done). Also, I don't know if I'm as physically attracted to him as I once was. All I know is tha... -
Miss You Issues: Two Months In
Dear Miss U, My boyfriend and I met 2 months ago, and we've been together pretty much since. We met in person but he lives 12 hours away. We've seen each other a few times since then, and I just got back from a week-long visit (July 1-9). I was supposed to move down at the end of July. Toward the end of my visit he told me he wasn't ready for me to move down yet. We discussed it and cried about it for a few days. I was devastated. He was hurt that he hurt me. It wasn't pretty. I agreed to... -
Miss You Issues: Nothing to Hide
Dear Miss U, I meet my boyfriend about a year ago; we have never seen each other in person, but our relationship is great, we Skype almost every day and he is very understanding, sweet and warm. I have meet his friends, even his family, and I love him much, but I tend to be more reserved and cold, and I haven't talked about this to many people, just a few very close friends. He says that he understands and he loves me being like this, but he also says he would really like to meet my friends,... -
Miss You Issues: Getting Through
Dear Miss U, My boyfriend and I are inseparable. For 2 weeks during summer, we went on 1 week long cruise with my family, then went on another week long beach trip with his family. The DAY we got back from the beach, I had to say goodbye to him because he was going to the US Merchant Marine Academy. He had to go up early because they start Indoctrination (boot camp) for the first 3 weeks of July. It's been 3 days since he has been gone and I don't know what to do with myself. They take away h... -
Miss You Issues: Let's Talk About (Phone) Sex
Dear Miss U,
I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months; 4 of them apart. My issues are in the sex topic. He gets stressed if I propose to have phone sex cause he can't touch me and I get stress cause I feel sometimes he doesn't want me. I try to talk about the issue twice in the worst way ending in a fight. How can I express what I feel without pressure him or what else I can do?
Thank you,
JR Dear JR, The best time to talk about anything sexual i... -
Miss You Issues: Making It Happen
Dear Miss U, I have been dating my boyfriend from Canada for 3 years. For a while we have been wanting to meet in real life, but we don't have the time and money right now, that and my boyfriend has to finish college first. We both have a strong bond and we love each other and I don't want to leave him and I want to see how well it can work in real life. But I don't know how much longer we have to be in a LDR for, because I want us to be a thing in real life. How long will we have to wait unt... -
Miss You Issues: Questions of Maturity
Dear Miss U, I have no troubles with my LDR. I met him in an online chatroom 10 years ago, and our deep friendship has helped us weather the most stressful times in the LDR. When things get too intense and we start feeling lonely, we step back and find balance again. We could not imagine our lives without each other, and I am truly blessed to know him. My problem is with my friends. It began with questions, "why are you in a LDR" and then statements "that's not healthy, don't you feel lonely... -
Miss You Issues: For Lack of Penis
Dear Miss U, My bf & I want to meet each other next year. We are both college students & we'll graduate from our respective programs near the end of 2016 or January 2017. We happen to be living on 2 different continents but, we both know this love is for real. We've made it this far as of 10 months together then, we know we can conquer the distance! We haven't met in person yet. Next year during my summer vacation I want to meet my bf for real; in his country. My family & my friends all oppose ... -
Miss You Issues: You Don't Need A Man
Dear Miss U, I met my significant other in college, we began dating and experienced distance for the first time two month into our relationship when he went home to Australia and I in the states. We made it through the month long Christmas break, and now are currently enduring the biggest time apart, summer break. We have arranged for me to come visit at the end of the summer for 3 and half weeks. However, possibly instead of him coming back to school he may have to take a semester off for per...
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