So, i logged onto tumblr today and I saw a post my boyfriend made and I have to say it made me so sad and angry. He's never let his emotions out like that before and what worse is no-one is really acknowledging it.
http://boringryu.tumblr.com/post/115...or-teh-funnies
Give it a read if you please, no-one should have to feel the way he does.
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I genuinely believe that ongoing efforts and dialogue can change things for the better. But it's a rocky road, and we all need to be considerate and openminded for that to happen. Kapwned puts is perfectly - Feminism is mainly for women, but men are included, and nobody gets anything taken from them. The focus just isn't on the privileged ones for once, and that's okay.
Bubblehits, I'm legit sorry your SO is struggling with issues. But he needs to recognize that "GURL POWER" isn't there to take anything away from him. Privilege doesn't mean you are immune to having issues, hell, the very issues the male-dominated society causes are affecting him too. Feminism is about making the way he is more accepted! But he's not going to make that better by lashing out at others trying to make things better for themselves. Bitterness is not going to solve anything. Instead of being spiteful, he should reach out to those who understand, because they exist, and he might very well find them in the very "GURL POWER" people he's taking issue with.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=13&v=QFoBaTkPgco
There are so many people out there who are reasonable and do not judge others just based on gender.And also so many people so many tempers! He should just try finding those who are like him and who would listen to him instead of shaming.
Bubblehits,maybe you can help him in that actually.Your support would be a great deal for him