I'm going to be moving to Toronto this summer, and I'm starting to get a bit nervous. My SO and I have mutually decided that living together now isn't really an option, because we are in different places and it would be beneficial for him to stay at home until he decides what he wants to do with school (instead of wasting a bunch of money to move out, and just work). So I am in the process of making plans to move in with another girl from the area, or just out on my own.
I know this sounds silly, but I'm worried about college and how I am going to maintain a relationship. I have been with my boy for almost 2 years, but everyone usually parties in college and you meet tons of new people. I'm so scared that I'll go up there and meet someone in the same place as I am. In college, who knows what they want to do. I really want to stay with my SO and live happily ever after, but I'm not sure if I'm suppose to be living the college experience and having the rest of my life ahead of me. That doesn't mean sleep around with a bunch of guys, but I will be attending art school. My boyfriend isn't exactly artistic or creative, and we don't really have much in common in that aspect.
It actually makes me sick to my stomach thinking about it. We have been through rocky times, mainly because of the LDR. But when we're together, I am happy and he makes me laugh. I just got home, and I'm starting to feel that distance creep in again and I start to worry more and more about college and whether or not I'll meet someone and leave my SO behind.
The thought scares me. I'm just wondering if anyone has any advice for me. Thank you!
I know this sounds silly, but I'm worried about college and how I am going to maintain a relationship. I have been with my boy for almost 2 years, but everyone usually parties in college and you meet tons of new people. I'm so scared that I'll go up there and meet someone in the same place as I am. In college, who knows what they want to do. I really want to stay with my SO and live happily ever after, but I'm not sure if I'm suppose to be living the college experience and having the rest of my life ahead of me. That doesn't mean sleep around with a bunch of guys, but I will be attending art school. My boyfriend isn't exactly artistic or creative, and we don't really have much in common in that aspect.
It actually makes me sick to my stomach thinking about it. We have been through rocky times, mainly because of the LDR. But when we're together, I am happy and he makes me laugh. I just got home, and I'm starting to feel that distance creep in again and I start to worry more and more about college and whether or not I'll meet someone and leave my SO behind.
The thought scares me. I'm just wondering if anyone has any advice for me. Thank you!
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