Stressed with his mom
To make it simple and short, I pitched in money to help with getting the SO and I a car. His parents though paid for most of it because it would be way too hard for me to get my car all the way down here from Ohio.
What annoys me is just about every day since we had it his parents are taking it or someone needs to borrow it. His parents - I've checked - ALWAYS have gas in their car- always. If it's not full it's half a tank, and so does our car. Though they continuously NEED to take our car- and it's stressful. I've already asked if it's because they want the car and they say no it's ours, yet ALWAYS take it. I haven't been put on the insurance yet so I haven't got to drive it and when I talk to the SO about it he says it annoys him but if it continues even after I get on the insurance then he'll start really talking to them. But I can't help but get stressed.
His parents (mostly his mother) has officially made it on my bad list from how she's been recently. It's been about 4 1/2 months and has finally hit me emotionally, and I'm honestly getting fed up with it. I don't like his family or how they are and have been considering just going back home. But it's so hard because it's not HIM it's his family! They're always saying you have to share everything with family, and his mother always tells me to watch my tongue and not get mad at this or that person. She tries to keep everyone happy and is always giving to other people yet doesn't understand why she doesn't have anything! She's nice and kind and all of that but LIES to everyone to keep them happy. Me or the SO can't even talk about online about what we've done or what restaurant we went to or what we did throughout the say because his SISTER can't find out! Because she gets 'jealous'! His sister is a THIRTY year old woman with her own place, and has a job. Yet we can't talk about our lives at all because she'll get jealous? His parents have been in a rutt and broke because they've been helping her out with food, and gas, and all of that. His sister just had to use our car yesterday because she didn't have gas!
My family was like this to my sister but not THIS bad, I honestly also moved here to get away from my family and they're honestly 50% worse than mine!
I just don't know how to handle them anymore or if I can. I just spent so much money on transferring my license and with the car, etc. I want to go to college here because my city doesn't offer the program I want but what else can I do? I'd be all for starting a job and getting my own place here but nobody will hire me!
/rant
What annoys me is just about every day since we had it his parents are taking it or someone needs to borrow it. His parents - I've checked - ALWAYS have gas in their car- always. If it's not full it's half a tank, and so does our car. Though they continuously NEED to take our car- and it's stressful. I've already asked if it's because they want the car and they say no it's ours, yet ALWAYS take it. I haven't been put on the insurance yet so I haven't got to drive it and when I talk to the SO about it he says it annoys him but if it continues even after I get on the insurance then he'll start really talking to them. But I can't help but get stressed.
His parents (mostly his mother) has officially made it on my bad list from how she's been recently. It's been about 4 1/2 months and has finally hit me emotionally, and I'm honestly getting fed up with it. I don't like his family or how they are and have been considering just going back home. But it's so hard because it's not HIM it's his family! They're always saying you have to share everything with family, and his mother always tells me to watch my tongue and not get mad at this or that person. She tries to keep everyone happy and is always giving to other people yet doesn't understand why she doesn't have anything! She's nice and kind and all of that but LIES to everyone to keep them happy. Me or the SO can't even talk about online about what we've done or what restaurant we went to or what we did throughout the say because his SISTER can't find out! Because she gets 'jealous'! His sister is a THIRTY year old woman with her own place, and has a job. Yet we can't talk about our lives at all because she'll get jealous? His parents have been in a rutt and broke because they've been helping her out with food, and gas, and all of that. His sister just had to use our car yesterday because she didn't have gas!
My family was like this to my sister but not THIS bad, I honestly also moved here to get away from my family and they're honestly 50% worse than mine!
I just don't know how to handle them anymore or if I can. I just spent so much money on transferring my license and with the car, etc. I want to go to college here because my city doesn't offer the program I want but what else can I do? I'd be all for starting a job and getting my own place here but nobody will hire me!
/rant
What about support from your family? Are you currently getting any?
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