My boyfriend and I have been dating since June and after several visits later and a job offer/promotion, I have decided to move to his state!!!
I know it's a huge risk, but due to the new job and the fact it is a promotion with tons of new opportunities, I have decided to accept the position. We are super excited to start our lives together as he recently accepted a new job in the same city!
Now the big question is whether or not we live together? I'm a bit on the fence. I've lived with someone before and it ended horribly. I'm willing to take the risk and move in with him, but in reality we have only been dating a few months and I am wondering if we should get our own places.
He definitely wants to live together and see what it would be like to live with me and see each ther daily but for me adjusting to a new city as well as career is a lot and I'm nervous about "shacking up" lol.
I do want to live with him, but am wondering if I should wait. Not sure if it's the nerves talking or not.
To anyone who has closed the distance, did you and your s/o live together right away or lived in separate places? Please share...
I know it's a huge risk, but due to the new job and the fact it is a promotion with tons of new opportunities, I have decided to accept the position. We are super excited to start our lives together as he recently accepted a new job in the same city!
Now the big question is whether or not we live together? I'm a bit on the fence. I've lived with someone before and it ended horribly. I'm willing to take the risk and move in with him, but in reality we have only been dating a few months and I am wondering if we should get our own places.
He definitely wants to live together and see what it would be like to live with me and see each ther daily but for me adjusting to a new city as well as career is a lot and I'm nervous about "shacking up" lol.
I do want to live with him, but am wondering if I should wait. Not sure if it's the nerves talking or not.
To anyone who has closed the distance, did you and your s/o live together right away or lived in separate places? Please share...
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