My SO and I have been dating for 5 mo., talking for 9 mo. We first met while he was deployed in Afghanistan.
He now lives just under an hour away. He has the means to move and he doesn't have a large social circle where he lives now. He's not passionate about his job. He's even expressed desire to move.
I'm really struggling with getting to see him for a few hours once a week. Talking isn't my love language. Getting to know him online was hard enough, but it had a countdown till we could finally meet which made it bearable.
I need him here with me. He hasn't been able to meet many of my friends. Sometimes it feels like I don't have a boyfriend at all.
Is it wrong of me to ask him to move closer if it means he would have to quit his job he's been at for 3 years?
He now lives just under an hour away. He has the means to move and he doesn't have a large social circle where he lives now. He's not passionate about his job. He's even expressed desire to move.
I'm really struggling with getting to see him for a few hours once a week. Talking isn't my love language. Getting to know him online was hard enough, but it had a countdown till we could finally meet which made it bearable.
I need him here with me. He hasn't been able to meet many of my friends. Sometimes it feels like I don't have a boyfriend at all.
Is it wrong of me to ask him to move closer if it means he would have to quit his job he's been at for 3 years?
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