Who would move?

[SeattleLove]

I will be the one moving, because I like the USA so much better than Germany, plus I always wanted to live there...So it was an easy decision

[pink elephant]

It's tough for both of us and still up in the air at the moment. T_T

I'm thinking he'll more than likely move here. The weather is nicer, people are friendlier, and he loves snow! Scotland is great, but the wet, rainy, and cloudy weather can get to you after awhile.

In the long run, it all depends on the race of who can get a better job and/or in a better location. Preferably both.

[Micah]

I am (hopefully) moving there this summer. My SO is very established in his career and is very high up on the ladder, so he has a lot of opportunities awaiting him in the future. He has no desire to move, and from the beginning I knew this. If he moved back here, he'd have to start all over again, and he has worked hard to get where he is. Also, I enjoy the area which he lives and have always wanted to live around there. I have no career here ( have been a indecisive professional student the past 9 years) and no desire to live here, so the decision wasn't too complicated to make... what's complicated is actually putting the decision into action!

[lucybelle]

I would have no problem moving there (I love the country and I LOVE to travel). But there is a problem. I have to teach in the USA for 3 years or pay back a large sum of money. So he's going to come here while I finish up. Then I'll go there while he finishes school. Then we'll both move to South America and start a new adventure.

At least that's the great scheme...=)

[MissShortie]

I would move to my SO, I think it would be easier for me to move there then for him to move here... he is willing to move here also but it would take longer for that to happen, so I think I will be the one to move... ONCE I get a car lol

[Caity]

We are both going to move. I am moving from the Isle of Man and he is moving from the Netherlands and we are both going to England, possibly Wales. It depends on where I get accepted at university. He loves England and hates Holland. I don't understand it cause I thought Holland was absolutely lovely XD but from his experience, he says a week in England was better than 19 years in Holland so he's set on moving there. The Isle of Man is just across the sea from England. Both he and I speak English, and there are no visa problems cause of the EU =D He is going to work because he wants a break from school stuff, whilst i will be working on my music degree. Possibly in the future we might move to the Isle of Man to have our family because it is such a good place for that, but we'll see =).

[Paris]

In my relationship I would be the one to move since my bf is in the Navy. He knows I would move anywhere he asked me to and that all he had to do was ask. I would never move unless it was he who asked me to.

[xopookie]

I use to live in Japan for a year and I want to move back so he'll do the moving. But I graduate in spring and it depends if I get a job there. If I get a job over there then I'm moving right after I graduate if I don't then I'm looking for jobs in Las Vegas and Phoenix and my honey lives in Phoenix. So if I can't get a job in Japan, I might just move to Phoenix and live with him but to save up money to move back to Japan lol!

[britt0851]

In your relationship, who would be the one to move? Why? Do you feel there is an expectation or pressure for one of you to move over the other?

Whenever we've discussed this, we agreed that to be fair to each other, we would both move at some point during our relationship. I'm sure I'll be the first one to move for many reasons. He owns and operates his own business and has for the past 10 years, he's got his own place, etc. With me, my only job at the moment is school and I can easily transfer to a school there. Plus, I'm not very 'homey'. I don't get homesick, at all and I've always wanted to move somewhere else at some point in my life, so maybe it's a sign we're meant to be However, we're nowhere near ready to move but hopefully sooner rather than later, because the distance is alot harder for me, than it is him!

[SeattleLove]

I just re-thought my answer and I gotta say: Actually, both of us are moving....
I only thought of me, because I will be the one leaving the country but he as well will move. from the Westcoast of the U.S. to the Eastcoast. With me. That's why both of us are moving....But I think first of all, I will move to Seattle (to him) and after some time we will move to the East together.
And like I said before: It was always obvious that I'll be the one moving to HIS country, instead of him moving to mine, because
1) I am fluent in his language and only knows tiny bits of mine
2) I love his country so much more than my own
3) I see more opportunities for us in the U.S.
Yeah, you see, it wasn't that hard of a decision

[DarkSolitary]

Well the "official" plan is this.

On June 19th, 2011 he will catch a plane and fly here and live with me until me and him can get a place of our own That is if things go well with his mom :x

[Elissa]

I'll be the one to move. We are both hoping to go to the same college, so it will be easier if I'm the one who goes.

[purplenonpeopleeater]

Why? Because there arent many uni's around where I live, where as he lives in a big city lol so makes more sense then him moving to famerland

MY feelings, exactly! xD

[Lexi]

In your relationship, who would be the one to move?
Me!

Why?
I want to! But I'm the one who moved from where we lived (unwillingly) to Chicago. I wouldn't expect him to move here when we would both hate it.

[princessmeg1328]

I would be the one to move. It'll be a lot easier for me, especially once I graduate from uni in May. He's older than me by about 10 years and is settled. Also with my degree in teaching, I can pretty much get a job anywhere. Other bonuses, I have already lived in his town when I studied abroad there two years ago, and I love England. I have friends there. I have a life there besides him already. Also after studying there, I had already decided I would move there one day. He's just like he cherry on top, in my mind.