He doesnt want to meet me? or he does?

[erwin1973]

Either way, the reasons don't matter. He is just messing with you. Leave him. He doesn't share his information, he doesn't want to meet you. It all sounds like you are some "online side chick" he's hiding. You deserve way way better!

Actually that is exactly what I was trying to say, only I wanted her to figure that out herself.

[yana]

Thanks everyone for support , you helped me to realise how blind i was,even noticing all those red flags.