Part of the many discussions The Boy and I had this past weekend had to do with closing the distance. Thing is, we don't really want to close it THAT much. At least right now.
I'm sure the fact that he's been divorced twice, me once is leading to a lot of tip-toeing and reluctance on our part. Our idea of closing the distance is only being 2 time zones apart as opposed to 5. And also, if I move closer that way, it would be much easier and less expensive for us to fly to see each other, even more inexpensive than us flying to our halfway point.
We also discussed me moving to him; even if I do, I want my own place.
So, I guess my question is - what is considered "closing the distance"? Do you have to be living together or can you be living apart and just not as far away as you were initially? Do you have to be the same city, state or time zone? Or is it whatever we've defined?
I'm sure the fact that he's been divorced twice, me once is leading to a lot of tip-toeing and reluctance on our part. Our idea of closing the distance is only being 2 time zones apart as opposed to 5. And also, if I move closer that way, it would be much easier and less expensive for us to fly to see each other, even more inexpensive than us flying to our halfway point.
We also discussed me moving to him; even if I do, I want my own place.
So, I guess my question is - what is considered "closing the distance"? Do you have to be living together or can you be living apart and just not as far away as you were initially? Do you have to be the same city, state or time zone? Or is it whatever we've defined?
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