Well, me and my SO have been together for a long time, upwards of two years, probably more like three. Our relationship has no real clear beginning. Lately things haven't been so great at the place I've been living and I'm considering moving. My SO lives in New York, and I live in the Chicago area, and I was thinking that if I ended up getting a place of my own that I might ask him if he'd consider moving in with me.
We're very open with each other, we know literally, all of each other's secrets. If I were to actually do this instead of only hypothetically thinking about it, since we haven't met, it'd be at least a year in the future. That way we'd have time to meet, and to adjust to actually being around each other, and I would be financially stable enough to handle the whole situation.
But, what I really need advice on, is how to bring this up. I feelin incredibly silly, as I'm a shy person by nature. He's said it a number of times that I can talk to him about anything, but I suppose I'm just feeling unsure. : /
We're very open with each other, we know literally, all of each other's secrets. If I were to actually do this instead of only hypothetically thinking about it, since we haven't met, it'd be at least a year in the future. That way we'd have time to meet, and to adjust to actually being around each other, and I would be financially stable enough to handle the whole situation.
But, what I really need advice on, is how to bring this up. I feelin incredibly silly, as I'm a shy person by nature. He's said it a number of times that I can talk to him about anything, but I suppose I'm just feeling unsure. : /
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