Hey all,
My boyfriend came back from Colorado to spend the summer with me in NY. His job is seasonal, as a ski and snowboard instructor, so I wanted him to stay in NY (where he is from) and be with me. He moved into my apartment with me. But so far, it hasn't been the easiest. I mean, don't get me wrong, it's great being back together- most of the time, we are really loving. But we get into arguments a lot easier. At first I think it was the stress of me finishing up school- I just recently graduated. And things have gotten better since I finished. But we still argue about little stupid things sometimes. And the worst is any time the future comes up, we argue pretty badly then. I know I want to be with him, and I know he wants to be with me (he got me a promise ring for our anniversary!) but the future is uncertain, and I think both of us need to compromise. I told him that I would move to CO for now, but that I don't want to do it permanently. I love my family, and want to live closer to them than 2000 miles away. Any ideas on how we can ease ourselves into being back together, and living together at the same time? And on how we can not argue so much about the future?
My boyfriend came back from Colorado to spend the summer with me in NY. His job is seasonal, as a ski and snowboard instructor, so I wanted him to stay in NY (where he is from) and be with me. He moved into my apartment with me. But so far, it hasn't been the easiest. I mean, don't get me wrong, it's great being back together- most of the time, we are really loving. But we get into arguments a lot easier. At first I think it was the stress of me finishing up school- I just recently graduated. And things have gotten better since I finished. But we still argue about little stupid things sometimes. And the worst is any time the future comes up, we argue pretty badly then. I know I want to be with him, and I know he wants to be with me (he got me a promise ring for our anniversary!) but the future is uncertain, and I think both of us need to compromise. I told him that I would move to CO for now, but that I don't want to do it permanently. I love my family, and want to live closer to them than 2000 miles away. Any ideas on how we can ease ourselves into being back together, and living together at the same time? And on how we can not argue so much about the future?
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