Would you move for your S/O without an engagement ring?
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I am in a month We haven't discussed marriage, but we have talked about spending the rest of our lives together!
Love will not betray you, dismay or enslave you, it will set you free
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Met: Cork, Ireland - December 31, 2009 • Started Dating: Cork, Ireland - May 22, 2010 • Became LD: July 15, 2010 • My Move From Canada to UK: October 26, 2011
Closed the distance June 18, 2012!
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I am, the engagement ring means nothing to me, in fact I'd rather live with him first before we got engaged/married the reason why? Marriages are like cars, you need to test drive them before you purchase. I'd hate to be stuck in a marriage with someone and be so put off with their sloppy lifestyle ect. And yes I say stuck because I believe in sticking to wedding vows, until death do us part. Unless you're being abused or something like that.
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Well, I'm moving before engagement because I don't want to be engaged for long before I get married (like a year at the most!) and I don't want to get married before I'm through school and in a career, so that'll be another few years down the road... But I love my SO and I want to do anything to be with him. He'll also be moving to be with me, and that says a lot to me. I know we're both committed to making this work, so engagement would be exciting, but it's not necessary for me!
My mum is completely on board, but my grandma pretends not to hear me when I mention it lol.
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Well, I'm moving before engagement because I don't want to be engaged for long before I get married (like a year at the most!) and I don't want to get married before I'm through school and in a career, so that'll be another few years down the road... But I love my SO and I want to do anything to be with him. He'll also be moving to be with me, and that says a lot to me. I know we're both committed to making this work, so engagement would be exciting, but it's not necessary for me!
My mum is completely on board, but my grandma pretends not to hear me when I mention it lol.
Love will not betray you, dismay or enslave you, it will set you free
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Met: Cork, Ireland - December 31, 2009 • Started Dating: Cork, Ireland - May 22, 2010 • Became LD: July 15, 2010 • My Move From Canada to UK: October 26, 2011
Closed the distance June 18, 2012!
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Yes.
Everything kteire said, well almost.
I want to get engaged about a year or a year and a half prior to the wedding, just as long as it takes to properly plan everything. I don't see the points of super long engagements.
Ring or not, I would never move anywhere for my boyfriend, where I wouldn't want to live on my own as well. Maybe it's just me being a mean cow, but I'm pretty sure I'd end up resenting my boyfriend for it, if I didn't really want to live there. If I don't like where I'm living a ring isn't going to change that.
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I've been living with my boyfriend for the past 3 months. I'm going to have to go back to the US (he lives in England) in a month, but I've been here for about as long as I could. I would live with him before we got married if I came back on a fiancee visa."I'll hold you in my heart till I can hold you in my arms again."
"It's supposed to be hard! If it wasn't hard, everyone would do it. The hard...is what makes it great! -A League of Their Own
Met: August 22, 2010
Made it official: September 17, 2010
Got engaged: January 15, 2012
Our First Visit: November 18, 2010-November 28, 2010
Our Seventh (and Last) Visit: November 10, 2012-November 24, 2012
Got married: November 21, 2012
Big Wedding Date: May 25, 2013
Closed the Distance: June 2, 2013
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Well, I'm married now (and haven't moved, yet, because of school)
Being an international couple, we would need a marriage to live together (no fiance visa in Japan) so... it's hard to really answer that question.
But, in theory... yes.
I would probably don't mind moving without an engagement ring ... and long as we we're clear on the whole "we want this relationship to last" kinda of talk. I wouldn't like to move and then he a month later tells me "I'm sorry, but I actually don't think I'm ready for this relationship right now, sorry".
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