Hi there,
Ive been with my SO for 5 years, Married for 2, and we have two children aged 2 and 4 together, We moved from New Zealand to Central New South Wales in Australia for better money, better lifestyle, etc. However after been here for 6 months, she decided that she missed her family too much, and that she couldn't get used to the town that we were living in.
I had a goal when I came over here, and if I was to go back now we would be worse off than before we left, which is one of the reasons why I left in the first place.
So to keep my wife happy, and still achieve the goals I set, I said that Im not going to go back to NZ, and that she can go if she wants.
Its been just over a month since her and the kids left, and im already starting to wonder if it is going to work long term, She thinks her family is "Helping" her out, but from what I can see they are taking advantage of her. I don't get on with her family to start off with, and with what her family is doing is really doing my head in. I love her to bits, but the thought of ever moving back there, and having to deal with her family on a daily basis again, makes me want to just call it quits now.
But anyway, thats a quick introduction to my LDM, and me, look foward to talking to others in simular situations.
Ive been with my SO for 5 years, Married for 2, and we have two children aged 2 and 4 together, We moved from New Zealand to Central New South Wales in Australia for better money, better lifestyle, etc. However after been here for 6 months, she decided that she missed her family too much, and that she couldn't get used to the town that we were living in.
I had a goal when I came over here, and if I was to go back now we would be worse off than before we left, which is one of the reasons why I left in the first place.
So to keep my wife happy, and still achieve the goals I set, I said that Im not going to go back to NZ, and that she can go if she wants.
Its been just over a month since her and the kids left, and im already starting to wonder if it is going to work long term, She thinks her family is "Helping" her out, but from what I can see they are taking advantage of her. I don't get on with her family to start off with, and with what her family is doing is really doing my head in. I love her to bits, but the thought of ever moving back there, and having to deal with her family on a daily basis again, makes me want to just call it quits now.
But anyway, thats a quick introduction to my LDM, and me, look foward to talking to others in simular situations.
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