Hi All!
I am in a LDR however my situation seems so much different then most I'm seeing. I have reconnected with my first love and he has been in my life forever. We were both beginning divorces when we started talking again in 2011. My divorce is final, his is dragging out. I live on the West Coast and he lives on the East Coast. He has been in love with me since I'm 13 years old. We dated when we were kids and then when we were in our 20's before we each got married he moved to Texas and contacted me when he came back to NY (I still lived there) and I rejected him. Now, I realize that my feelings and more importantly HIS feelings for me were too intense and I couldn't handle it. The way he looked at me OMG. Sooo, we each married other people and STILL when I saw him at certain events he would still look at me the same way and I knew in my heart he still loved me. Long story short (is that even possible?) Last year we saw each other frequently, he came here I went there. My kids love him, they text him all the time. Problem is we haven't seen each other in 10 months. His job is extremely physical and demanding and he is so used to only focusing on work I feel neglected. I know I sound like a baby---but he went from adoring me and us talking/texting constantly to barely getting a good morning and good night text and rarely a phone call. There is a 3 hour time difference and he leaves for work at 4 a.m. and lately gets home around 8 p.m....long day I know. I feel sad all the time though, I miss him. If we lived in the same place it wouldn't bother me as much because I'd still have him next to me at night and I'd feel his love. But I'm feeling pretty left out of his life right now. ANy advice?
I am in a LDR however my situation seems so much different then most I'm seeing. I have reconnected with my first love and he has been in my life forever. We were both beginning divorces when we started talking again in 2011. My divorce is final, his is dragging out. I live on the West Coast and he lives on the East Coast. He has been in love with me since I'm 13 years old. We dated when we were kids and then when we were in our 20's before we each got married he moved to Texas and contacted me when he came back to NY (I still lived there) and I rejected him. Now, I realize that my feelings and more importantly HIS feelings for me were too intense and I couldn't handle it. The way he looked at me OMG. Sooo, we each married other people and STILL when I saw him at certain events he would still look at me the same way and I knew in my heart he still loved me. Long story short (is that even possible?) Last year we saw each other frequently, he came here I went there. My kids love him, they text him all the time. Problem is we haven't seen each other in 10 months. His job is extremely physical and demanding and he is so used to only focusing on work I feel neglected. I know I sound like a baby---but he went from adoring me and us talking/texting constantly to barely getting a good morning and good night text and rarely a phone call. There is a 3 hour time difference and he leaves for work at 4 a.m. and lately gets home around 8 p.m....long day I know. I feel sad all the time though, I miss him. If we lived in the same place it wouldn't bother me as much because I'd still have him next to me at night and I'd feel his love. But I'm feeling pretty left out of his life right now. ANy advice?
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