Hi everyone! My name is Matthew and I'm a 21 year old college student majoring in English w/Creative Writing. My LDR is unique in that my girlfriend and I met at our university; however, due to her health she more or less housebound. She has Crohn’s Disease, ADHD, a learning disability, and a severe anxiety disorder. I’m legally blind (I have 10º of vision in my left eye and 15º in my right) and I have cerebral palsy. We haven’t been able to see each other in six months and sadly, we’ve recently hit a major rough patch, but we’re still hanging in there and just as in love as were from the start. Can anyone offer any advice for the rough patches that might come up or as anyone been in a similar situation that has worked out?
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there are some members who are in a similar situation/have health conditions that make their LDRs a little more of a hurdle. Hopefully as you become part of the community you'll learn who those people are and they'll be able to share their experiences/advice - I don't feel it's my place to tell you who they are thoughMet Online: February 2009
Feelings grew: January 2011
First met in person: 4 April - 16 April 2011
Officially together since: 4th of April 2011
Second visit: 29 June - 1 August 2011
Third visit: 28 September - 15 October 2011
Fourth visit: 19 January - 25 February 2012
Fifth visit: 24 March - 12 April 2012
Sixth visit: 2 June - 7 July 2012
Engaged: 1st of July 2012
Seventh visit: 27 August - 23 September
Visa lodged: 5th of November 2012
Eighth visit: 8 December 2012 - 12 January 2013
Visa granted: 8th of May 2013
Hawaii: 19 May - 2 June 2013
Closed the distance: 16th of July 2013
Married my Englishman on the 4th of October 2013
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