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    Not as far as some, but still...

    Hi everyone! After creeping around this page a few times, I decided to actually join the forum to be able to talk with others in "geographically unique" relationships and read everyone's stories and positive thoughts I think this is an awesome idea for a forum and am excited to have joined!

    My boyfriend and I met on a Christian dating website in January of 2012 and have been officially together since Feb 2012. We Facebooked, texted, talked on the phone for about three weeks before our first date and the rest is history!! I am 23, he's 24, and he is the one Some people might roll their eyes when I mention how far apart we actually are...about 150 miles/a 2 and a half hour drive. I know I know, that's nothing compared to some, and I have so much respect for those who are conquering much longer distances, including international! Still, the fact remains that we are in two different parts of the state and due to work schedules, we have had to work out a schedule of seeing each other which regularly includes stretches of time apart. I'm not complaining...it could be much more time apart, and we have worked it out incredibly well for ourselves with no questions of "should we be doing this?" At all. I'm thankful and happy to say that we have a secure and thriving relationship, despite the doubts that some people may have about being with someone over two hours away from you. Not to say it hasn't been hard at times...that's why I love the idea of being able to post and read on this forum!!

    It's funny because I guess we never totally defined ourselves as "long distance"...we just do what we've gotta do...but being able to come to places like this for support is really awesome for those nights when you just feel lonely even though you've been texting all day (which we've never gone a day without)

    Looking forward to meeting everyone and sharing stories and support!

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    Hi and welcome to LFAD, Lizclaire!
    Where in Illinois are you? Chicago is one of my favorite cities! - I lived in Oak Park for over a year. Great times! :-)

    Again, welcome on board!

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      #3
      Thank you!! I'm actually about an hour south of Chicago I really like it there too!

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        #4
        Welcome, Liz! Distance is distance -- doesn't matter how far -- and it still has it's ups and downs, I'm sure.
        February 2012 -- met online
        August 2012 -- he said "I love you."
        April 2013 -- met in person
        June 2013 -- broke up
        July 2013 -- back together
        August 2013 -- 2nd visit
        October 20, 2013 -- He proposed!
        April 22, 2014 -- Married/closed the distance!

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          #5
          Thanks Benni! Very true statement!!

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            #6
            Chicago is also one of my favorite cities! It's the first city my SO and I met in. It holds a special place.

            Welcome to LFAD!

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              #7
              Welcome to the forums
              Met Online: February 2009
              Feelings grew: January 2011
              First met in person: 4 April - 16 April 2011
              Officially together since: 4th of April 2011
              Second visit: 29 June - 1 August 2011
              Third visit: 28 September - 15 October 2011
              Fourth visit: 19 January - 25 February 2012
              Fifth visit: 24 March - 12 April 2012
              Sixth visit: 2 June - 7 July 2012
              Engaged: 1st of July 2012
              Seventh visit: 27 August - 23 September
              Visa lodged: 5th of November 2012
              Eighth visit: 8 December 2012 - 12 January 2013
              Visa granted: 8th of May 2013
              Hawaii: 19 May - 2 June 2013
              Closed the distance: 16th of July 2013

              Married my Englishman on the 4th of October 2013

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