Hello from Malaysia.

Welcome to the forums, Yuba!

[yubashini]

hi Alizee,

Thanks for your reply,...i think i can relate to what you feel..., even though i have a kid, and working which takes up most of my time, when im free i wonder too why my SO has not reply to me msgs or call me...(i wonder sometimes that i'm the one with a kid, and i have time to spare...why don't you rite?) i join the community hoping for some answers and advice on whether i'm being too childish (like a teen). It could be that after 3 years i find some one i could connect with and which is why i seem needy?? i don't know.

[alizee]

Welcome to the forum! This forum has helped me a lot during my 3,5 mohths LDR, and without the opinions here, I think I wouldn*t have been able to cope with the distance ... I still have 3 more weeks to wait before we meet. Why does this have to be so hard on me? I know he doesn*t feel the same way, because he has a more active social life than me and that keeps him from missing me (he told me one time that it gets lonley on him sometimes), but I guess I am the one that misses him more. And I am getting very emotional ... and to see the fact that he doesn*t want us to talk daily (because he seems a little child and a person who sometimes wants to just be, and relax on his own ...) it kills me.

[yubashini]

HI,

I recently join the LDR forum and in a LDR relationship with SO who is in the United States. Our relationship is quite recent..it has been only a month. Im a divorcee with a 5 year old daughter (been 3 years since divorce). SO is also divorce - no kids. I'm 33 and he is 38.

Hope to meet and help each other here.

Regards
Yuba.