Hi there from the UK :-) I might be one of the oldest members, not sure :p

[x_Katy_x]

I am glad to have come across this site and thought I'd introduce myself :-)

I'm 41, am in the UK and I've been seeing (or as far as I can *see* him, going off distance) a guy of the same age as me in the USA since last June. We met on an online forum and up to now, have met in person on three week long dates. Our lives have been quite similar in that neither of us ever married or have any kids. We both often struggled to meet people by more conventional means although are glad to have cast our net wider (wider than perhaps most people would be willing to) and found one another. It's early days, though and not an easy road with us being in separate countries.

I look forward to chatting with others *in the same boat* so to speak :-)

[Lilly9886]

Welcome to LFAD!

[AussieAmericanGirl66]

You've come to the right place, as you will soon see. Many of us are in similar situations. It isn't easy, but it is doable.

By the way, I would guess I might be the oldest one here, at 66 (turning 67 in May).

[x_Katy_x]

Welcome to LFAD!

Thanks a lot :-) It will be good to share thoughts on here.

[x_Katy_x]

You've come to the right place, as you will soon see. Many of us are in similar situations. It isn't easy, but it is doable.

By the way, I would guess I might be the oldest one here, at 66 (turning 67 in May).

Wow. I imagine you could hold the record for the oldest LDR'er here and it's lovely, really inspiring to read of people finding love at all ages :-) I see you're in USA and your guy in Australia. Have you been able to meet up "for real" yet? And thanks for the welcome :-)

[Ahava]

Welcome!

[Unicorn26]

Hi, I'm 41 too, also in UK and my guy is also in USA. We have yet to meet in person but I am hoping it will happen within the next few months ��

[Heavenly_Love12]

to the forum! I hope you'll like it here

[80anthea]

Hi, I'm also in the UK and in a relationship with a guy from the USA. Welcome

[Hollandia]

I am from USA and my SO is Dutch, it has been a hard few years but will just won't let any obstacles stand in our way. We have not not closed the distance yet, but have been together since Dec 24th so far, and pushing towards October before we have to part again. We are both over 35. Welcome to LFAD.

[x_Katy_x]

Thank you :-) I see your man lives in the UK. Whereabouts is he?

[x_Katy_x]

Hi, I'm 41 too, also in UK and my guy is also in USA. We have yet to meet in person but I am hoping it will happen within the next few months ��

It's great to meet someone else in the UK with an American boyfriend :-) How did you meet to begin with? I really hope you'll get the chance to meet for real soon. Will he visit you or you him first? Where in the UK are you? I'm in North Wales . Where's your man? Mine's in Kentucky

[x_Katy_x]

Thanks for the welcome :-) It's good to share thoughts with people dealing with the same situation.

[x_Katy_x]

Hi, I'm also in the UK and in a relationship with a guy from the USA. Welcome

It's great to meet others in the UK with men in the USA too :-) Where in the UK are you? Where's your guy? Have you met in person? I'm in North Wales and the man is in Kentucky.

[x_Katy_x]

I am from USA and my SO is Dutch, it has been a hard few years but will just won't let any obstacles stand in our way. We have not not closed the distance yet, but have been together since Dec 24th so far, and pushing towards October before we have to part again. We are both over 35. Welcome to LFAD.

Thank you :-) Are you together in the USA or Holland? Can you speak Dutch? It's lovely how we can all come together over this unique life situation and chat