Hello! I am new on this website and want to share my story.
I am back in the Netherlands since 2 weeks, the first time that I am apart from my SO. I met him when I was studying abroad, I actually met him on my second day there. We started dating pretty soon, even though I knew it wasn't really smart (after all, I had to go back home at some point). But no one could stop me, I was madly in love. We spent 7 amazing months together, we even went on a 3 week trip together when my study period was finished and I had time to travel. This trip was amazing, we got even more connected. But then.. I had to go home, my student visa was expired.
Saying goodbye was aweful, I cried a lot. The first week at home was really strange, I had been away for 7 months. And off course, I missed him so much. I couldn't eat, sleep or do anything. Now, after 2 weeks, it is getting better. We Skype every day (sometimes multiple times), and text a lot. I am sure he is 100% dedicated to me and this relationship, and he is sure we'll work it out. We have had several conversations about the future. I really would consider to move, I have experienced living over there and I am sure I can be happy there with him. He also said he would consider moving to the Netherlands. The only thing is work.. I just graduated medical school and working as a doctor in the States is really hard. He has his own company.
So the plan is to see how everything goes, since we are only 2 weeks apart for the first time. He is planning to come visit me in April, and maybe I will visit him in a few weeks (I am looking for a job so I have time).
It is just so hard! I cannot help but thinking about the future, and if it would be worth it. I know I love him very much and I don't want anything else but being with him. Because I just graduated, I have too much time and not much distraction. I try to be busy as much as I can, but I am thinking to much.
Is it normal that I am dealing better with missing him, because I was sick about it the first week? That is what's keeping me busy right now. I don't want to doubt my feelings for him.
Thank you! I think I will find a lot of comfort in this website.
I am back in the Netherlands since 2 weeks, the first time that I am apart from my SO. I met him when I was studying abroad, I actually met him on my second day there. We started dating pretty soon, even though I knew it wasn't really smart (after all, I had to go back home at some point). But no one could stop me, I was madly in love. We spent 7 amazing months together, we even went on a 3 week trip together when my study period was finished and I had time to travel. This trip was amazing, we got even more connected. But then.. I had to go home, my student visa was expired.
Saying goodbye was aweful, I cried a lot. The first week at home was really strange, I had been away for 7 months. And off course, I missed him so much. I couldn't eat, sleep or do anything. Now, after 2 weeks, it is getting better. We Skype every day (sometimes multiple times), and text a lot. I am sure he is 100% dedicated to me and this relationship, and he is sure we'll work it out. We have had several conversations about the future. I really would consider to move, I have experienced living over there and I am sure I can be happy there with him. He also said he would consider moving to the Netherlands. The only thing is work.. I just graduated medical school and working as a doctor in the States is really hard. He has his own company.
So the plan is to see how everything goes, since we are only 2 weeks apart for the first time. He is planning to come visit me in April, and maybe I will visit him in a few weeks (I am looking for a job so I have time).
It is just so hard! I cannot help but thinking about the future, and if it would be worth it. I know I love him very much and I don't want anything else but being with him. Because I just graduated, I have too much time and not much distraction. I try to be busy as much as I can, but I am thinking to much.
Is it normal that I am dealing better with missing him, because I was sick about it the first week? That is what's keeping me busy right now. I don't want to doubt my feelings for him.
Thank you! I think I will find a lot of comfort in this website.
I'm sure you'll find lots of support here. I'm glad you're feeling a bit better already 
The few days of being apart definitely suck!
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