Hi,
So short rundown, if ya'll have questions feel free to ask. I met this woman in our little town, was honestly more amazed we had never run into each other before considering we were living about 3 miles apart, had jeeps (if you own one you understand) and went to the same gym. Long story short we made the connection and spent about 45 minutes talking in the gym (we were those people lol). I was in a relationship at the time and shortly after realized I shouldn't be. A few weeks later my current girl (we are not labeling our relationship/each other for fear of messing it up) essentially knew we were in a relationship. Before that she had made plans to go stay with a family, working as a Nanny, in France for the next 0-6 months (6 months max due to Visa). She took off yesterday at 6:55pm local time, and is now safely with the family in France.
I have tried to be in 1 long distance relationship previous to this, it failed miserably after a year. Flash forward to now, we had to choose how to handle the upcoming distance. We decided to put in the effort to stay close, if we do stay close we know it's meant to be and we will continue. If we drift then we drift, and will see what life has to offer in all directions. Personally, only way I can deal with it knowing how I feel about her is to say I'm going to make this work because she is what I want.
So essentially i'm here to have people to talk to and get a better understanding of how to handle the situation, overall I feel very lucky. Technology makes a world of difference in dealing with distance, and I am willing to deal with the frustration and difficulty due to the worth I see in the relationship and the individual. It has almost become a challenge to beat this and end up on the other side!
A little about me, I'm a full time technician at a dealership, and a full time student who will graduate in December. I'll head straight for my EMT after that.
I appreciate everyones time, feel free to ask questions if you have any.
So short rundown, if ya'll have questions feel free to ask. I met this woman in our little town, was honestly more amazed we had never run into each other before considering we were living about 3 miles apart, had jeeps (if you own one you understand) and went to the same gym. Long story short we made the connection and spent about 45 minutes talking in the gym (we were those people lol). I was in a relationship at the time and shortly after realized I shouldn't be. A few weeks later my current girl (we are not labeling our relationship/each other for fear of messing it up) essentially knew we were in a relationship. Before that she had made plans to go stay with a family, working as a Nanny, in France for the next 0-6 months (6 months max due to Visa). She took off yesterday at 6:55pm local time, and is now safely with the family in France.
I have tried to be in 1 long distance relationship previous to this, it failed miserably after a year. Flash forward to now, we had to choose how to handle the upcoming distance. We decided to put in the effort to stay close, if we do stay close we know it's meant to be and we will continue. If we drift then we drift, and will see what life has to offer in all directions. Personally, only way I can deal with it knowing how I feel about her is to say I'm going to make this work because she is what I want.
So essentially i'm here to have people to talk to and get a better understanding of how to handle the situation, overall I feel very lucky. Technology makes a world of difference in dealing with distance, and I am willing to deal with the frustration and difficulty due to the worth I see in the relationship and the individual. It has almost become a challenge to beat this and end up on the other side!
A little about me, I'm a full time technician at a dealership, and a full time student who will graduate in December. I'll head straight for my EMT after that.
I appreciate everyones time, feel free to ask questions if you have any.
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