Hello,
I'll refrain from using my first name but G will suffice. My LDR partner's name is J. I stumbled upon the LFAD forum today while shamelessly googling stuff about being in an LDR. I am a child of my generation, we google everything. I'm here to share our adventure in an environment free from judgement and full of glorious anonymity.
A brief rundown on us:
I married young, and my now LDR partner was a guest at my wedding - she worked with my wife. We hit it off and pursued an extramarital affair as the relationship with my wife deteriorated. When we met, she was always planning on the leaving the country. Had the date and everything locked in, all was final in that respect. It started out purely physical between the two of us and we liked having a final date on it as meant no strings attached and I could go back to my real life afterwards. Then we fell hopelessly in love, it was too late for her to back out of leaving and now here we are. Pursuing a clandestine relationship across the globe with an 8 hour time difference and a wife in the way. We like a challenge, her and I.
Our goal for the next little while is to both get our lives together to a point where we are ready for each other and to be together full time. In a way it's almost fortuitous that we have the space. I obviously have some things to take care of that are easier done without her around as a full time distraction, if you will.
If you take umbrage with our circumstances or think either one of us is the devil incarnate then I make no apologies for that and kindly ask that you keep it to yourself, and remember that everyone is here because we share a common longing to be with our respective partners and to help each other out with that. I have wrestled with the moral quandary of it all both by myself and with her before she left, and we know the score on our home turf.
Hopefully this is as inviting a forum as any other I'm a member of.
I'll refrain from using my first name but G will suffice. My LDR partner's name is J. I stumbled upon the LFAD forum today while shamelessly googling stuff about being in an LDR. I am a child of my generation, we google everything. I'm here to share our adventure in an environment free from judgement and full of glorious anonymity.
A brief rundown on us:
I married young, and my now LDR partner was a guest at my wedding - she worked with my wife. We hit it off and pursued an extramarital affair as the relationship with my wife deteriorated. When we met, she was always planning on the leaving the country. Had the date and everything locked in, all was final in that respect. It started out purely physical between the two of us and we liked having a final date on it as meant no strings attached and I could go back to my real life afterwards. Then we fell hopelessly in love, it was too late for her to back out of leaving and now here we are. Pursuing a clandestine relationship across the globe with an 8 hour time difference and a wife in the way. We like a challenge, her and I.
Our goal for the next little while is to both get our lives together to a point where we are ready for each other and to be together full time. In a way it's almost fortuitous that we have the space. I obviously have some things to take care of that are easier done without her around as a full time distraction, if you will.
If you take umbrage with our circumstances or think either one of us is the devil incarnate then I make no apologies for that and kindly ask that you keep it to yourself, and remember that everyone is here because we share a common longing to be with our respective partners and to help each other out with that. I have wrestled with the moral quandary of it all both by myself and with her before she left, and we know the score on our home turf.
Hopefully this is as inviting a forum as any other I'm a member of.
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