Hi guys, I hope everything is going well and if not, will be going well with all of you. I decided to join because I realized if me and my partner are going to make it, I need guidance. I just started visiting a therapist for the first time and only had about 2 meetings. It does help but I recently just hit rock bottom with allllll of my emotions and it affects my relationship. To give a little background, me and my partner have been together for almost a year but known each other for over a year. We met in college #hamptonuniversity, and we kicked it off so easily. The honeymoon phase was real. We still had problems and I knew we would have to deal with a lot once the phase was over but I felt like if we’re together nothing can stop us. Never did I expect we would be forced to be 8 hrs away and only get to see each other once every 3/4 months because of the pandemic. I wasn’t able to go back to school, which is my senior year, because my campus stayed closed for the entire year, so I have to stay with my mom and so does he. This affects us because we can’t just leave or do what we want to truly do. I guess this was a very detailed introduction haha and maybe just a slight rant session but this is basically why I’m here. I want to know if other people go through these things too and how they deal with them, so I’m excited to be here! Thanks for having me.
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Welcome to the world of LDR , and therapy is a good thing.
Its not easy being in love at the best of times , i remember being your age and at school in a LDR , we did not have the modern ways of getting in touch like we do today, so use what is available to keep the love burning . Dont over talk either as you both need to study . Soon you will be vacinated . And can travel again . So in the mean time dream up an adventure together to do when travel happens . Keep it light . Im beginning to see that dreaming and talking about your next date is so much fun . Me and my man write funny stuff all the time, read the sane book together, make plans to do adventures . We have movie night , date night all the time . Check out Google Duo , the best video quality ever . So treat each other ss best freinds whilst apart . And just make each other laugh . Being moody , being miserable is just life. If you want this to work , work on yourself and the rest will be easy . Keep encouraging each other in your daily pursuits
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