I'm 30 yrs old and live in Minnesota. I'm a single mom of a wonderful 3 yr old son, Jack (from a different relationship) and my SO-Chuck- lives in Toronto, Ontario and has two boys, Keddie- 16 yrs old and Jade- 6 yrs old.
We met 12 years ago in Fort Frances, Ontario in a small hole in the wall bar in 1999. We instantly hit it off right a way, and tried to communicate by email... but it never really went any where! I was too afraid of an Int'l LDR and was way more into having a College social life at that time. My son's father and I, were together for 3 yrs and then I ended our relationship and moved out.
Well Six months single, I was on FB and happened to do a search by email and Chuck came up.. asked him to be a friend and with in a week-- we were talking like nothing had ever changed... we exchanged phone numbers right away and started talking about seeing each other again.
Chuck asked me if I could actually visit his son Keddie to pick up a parcel that Keddie had for him, since we were trying to make plans to visit. So we had it all planned out and I was ready to go visit Keddie that very next Monday at a restaurant-- figured I'd buy him lunch and then I'd head back home.... Well instead of Keddie walking in, Chuck did!
at that moment-- I knew I would never be the same person again!
However, Chuck felt that we needed to learn to be "friends" first... and not instantly jump into a relationship... so 5 months later this December 2010... I finally had him make it official! So we've been only dating in reality for 2 months-- but the best thing is... he's also my best friend too!
We met 12 years ago in Fort Frances, Ontario in a small hole in the wall bar in 1999. We instantly hit it off right a way, and tried to communicate by email... but it never really went any where! I was too afraid of an Int'l LDR and was way more into having a College social life at that time. My son's father and I, were together for 3 yrs and then I ended our relationship and moved out.
Well Six months single, I was on FB and happened to do a search by email and Chuck came up.. asked him to be a friend and with in a week-- we were talking like nothing had ever changed... we exchanged phone numbers right away and started talking about seeing each other again.
Chuck asked me if I could actually visit his son Keddie to pick up a parcel that Keddie had for him, since we were trying to make plans to visit. So we had it all planned out and I was ready to go visit Keddie that very next Monday at a restaurant-- figured I'd buy him lunch and then I'd head back home.... Well instead of Keddie walking in, Chuck did!

However, Chuck felt that we needed to learn to be "friends" first... and not instantly jump into a relationship... so 5 months later this December 2010... I finally had him make it official! So we've been only dating in reality for 2 months-- but the best thing is... he's also my best friend too!
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