hi, i'm new here.
i'm in a very tough ldr with a man i consider the great love of my life. we have known each other for 14 years and have a history, i met him when he was single and he since married, had 4 children, and is now divorced. i married while he was married, and i am now divorced, no kids, 2 cats, (1 gerbil).
it's a very tough relationship, he doesn't have a whole lot of time because he is a very attentive father to his 4 boys, the youngest are 3 yr old twins and the oldest is only 10, but then the oldest has aspergers and the middle child, at 7, has high functioning autism. the moral of the story is we get to see each other very infrequently and when we can't see each other he is basically completely unavailable because of his family.
we see each other every month to a month and a half when i drive two hours to go up and visit him, but when i do, it is only for a night, because i go to school full time and work on the weekends.
I had been stressed out about our relationship, because like i said im very much in love with him, but then i realized we are actually doing really good for a ldr, and now having written down all of that, and realizing everything we have to struggle with, i feel really good about it!
i'm in a very tough ldr with a man i consider the great love of my life. we have known each other for 14 years and have a history, i met him when he was single and he since married, had 4 children, and is now divorced. i married while he was married, and i am now divorced, no kids, 2 cats, (1 gerbil).
it's a very tough relationship, he doesn't have a whole lot of time because he is a very attentive father to his 4 boys, the youngest are 3 yr old twins and the oldest is only 10, but then the oldest has aspergers and the middle child, at 7, has high functioning autism. the moral of the story is we get to see each other very infrequently and when we can't see each other he is basically completely unavailable because of his family.
we see each other every month to a month and a half when i drive two hours to go up and visit him, but when i do, it is only for a night, because i go to school full time and work on the weekends.
I had been stressed out about our relationship, because like i said im very much in love with him, but then i realized we are actually doing really good for a ldr, and now having written down all of that, and realizing everything we have to struggle with, i feel really good about it!
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