My name is Annette I am new to this site but have been with my LDR for 3 years now. When we first met on a website, I was married, I knew before we met that my marriage was far from over. My husband was mentally abusive and had cheated on me over and over. I was the president of the business we created together with another partner and I had no choice at the time but to stay. I also had 2 boys underage that were going through a lot, My oldest was hospitalized with bi-polar and was self mutilating. My youngest is autistic, and would get very emotional when I would mention leaving his father although he did see what his father was doing to me.
I have fibromyalgia, and as anyone knows that has this illness, stress is a big factor on setting off "flares". I was under an extremely stressful situation and in April '08 I became ill. I was bedfast for almost 2 years. Actually this April will be 2 years. So this made it very difficult to leave. In March of '08 I told my LDR that I wanted to try to work things out with my husband, It didn't last 3 months before he was back to his old rotten self. I got back in touch with LDR becuase I could not get him off my mind, I missed him soooooo much.
Now that I live away from my husband and my boys are grown now and on their own i am getting better, I can walk now and will be driving soon. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me.
I have fibromyalgia, and as anyone knows that has this illness, stress is a big factor on setting off "flares". I was under an extremely stressful situation and in April '08 I became ill. I was bedfast for almost 2 years. Actually this April will be 2 years. So this made it very difficult to leave. In March of '08 I told my LDR that I wanted to try to work things out with my husband, It didn't last 3 months before he was back to his old rotten self. I got back in touch with LDR becuase I could not get him off my mind, I missed him soooooo much.
Now that I live away from my husband and my boys are grown now and on their own i am getting better, I can walk now and will be driving soon. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me.
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