Hi all!
I stumbled upon this site while Googling "long distance relationship support group" which made me feel a bit pathetic at the time, but I'm just looking for a place to talk with people who understand what I'm going through. My friends are awesome, but none of them have been in a similar situation so I generally just make them feel awkward when I talk about it all too much.
I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 29, we met in college down in North Carolina and have been together for 2 years, long distance for a little over 6 months.
He graduated in 2010 and began working down there, I graduated this past May and got a job up in New York. I really, really, REALLY didn't want to leave, but he encouraged me and I knew it was the right decision to begin my career.
The current game plan is for him to move up here next summer, either to go to grad school if he gets in or to just start working. Still, the waiting is SO hard!! I just want him to up and quit is job and move up here right away, but he signed a lease until July with his brother, and he would never screw him over like that. I'd love to go back down there, but options for my career in NC are extremely, extremely limited.
Anway, that's my story, I look forward to participating in the community!!
I stumbled upon this site while Googling "long distance relationship support group" which made me feel a bit pathetic at the time, but I'm just looking for a place to talk with people who understand what I'm going through. My friends are awesome, but none of them have been in a similar situation so I generally just make them feel awkward when I talk about it all too much.
I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 29, we met in college down in North Carolina and have been together for 2 years, long distance for a little over 6 months.
He graduated in 2010 and began working down there, I graduated this past May and got a job up in New York. I really, really, REALLY didn't want to leave, but he encouraged me and I knew it was the right decision to begin my career.
The current game plan is for him to move up here next summer, either to go to grad school if he gets in or to just start working. Still, the waiting is SO hard!! I just want him to up and quit is job and move up here right away, but he signed a lease until July with his brother, and he would never screw him over like that. I'd love to go back down there, but options for my career in NC are extremely, extremely limited.
Anway, that's my story, I look forward to participating in the community!!
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