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    I guess it was my turn next

    So apparently we're through. Things have been really bad with our relationship lately, and I finally told him I couldn't do it anymore with him acting like this, ignoring me all the time and treating me like I don't matter. And honestly, I really do not believe I'm exaggerating when I say any of these things. He's constantly online and texting other people and will refuse to talk to me for the most part, and he's been a totally different person towards me for atleast two or three weeks now, and not one I liked. He's been very rude, condescending, name calling, and while he's claims its all fun and games (and I'm sure a lot of it is), when I express to him that it bothers me, he just continues on. It just seems lately he hasn't had much regard for my feelings, and I understand he's got a lot going on, but that doesn't give him a right to treat me like crap, which I never expected out of him.
    So now he's blocking me off all messengers and everything else and told me he wants nothing to do with me. There's more to his texts that are more personal, but you get the gists.
    So, I guess that's it? Fuck, I don't know, but I'm hurt, confused, upset, crying, idk.... I'm honestly heartbroken at the thought of losing him, especially altogether like this.
    You never forget your first love...

    #2
    You deserve so much better than how he was treating you. Nevertheless, I'm very sorry to hear this and I'm sorry you're hurting. Please take care of yourself and know we're here for you. Don't hesitate to PM if you need to talk. *hug*

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      #3
      I don't know if I'll be on here much from now on, it's a painful reminder of what I no longer have, but I do wish you all the best with your relationships.
      You never forget your first love...

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        #4
        Sorry to hear about your situation.. but better to let him go considering his way of treating you like that.
        You are more worth and deserved to be treated in a good and nice way.
        I know that it's hurt but time will heal.
        Hopefully you will get better as time passes by and then you will get a better person that will appreciate and love you more for who you are.
        All the best and be strong! *hugs*

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          #5
          Wow, i'm so sorry. You don't deserve someone who treats you like that. You will find someone better, and the pain will go away with time. This is all things people will tell you to make you feel better and I know that it doesn't feel that way right now but it will get better and you will find someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. You have my AIM if you ever need to talk about anything.
          "You want for myself
          You get me like no one else
          I am beautiful with you

          I am beautiful with you
          Even in the darkest part of me
          I am beautiful with you
          Make it feel the way it's supposed to be
          You're here with me
          Just show me this and I'll believe
          I am beautiful with you"

          -Halestorm

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            #6
            I'm sorry. But you really don't deserve to be treated like that. All the best to you.

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              #7
              Some guys are jerks. I hope you find a better one.

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                #8
                You deserve way better than how you were being treated. That said, I know it doesn't actually make it any easier to deal with, and it doesn't make the pain any less. Hope things get better for you!

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                  #9
                  Thank you everyone.
                  This is so hard, I've never cared so much about someone, and this being my first serious relationship, I just don't even know what to do with myself right now. It just sucks.
                  You never forget your first love...

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                    #10
                    I'm very, very sorry to hear that this has happened =( I can relate to how you feel...listen, you need someone to talk to, whenever you need someone to chat to, message me on here or drop me an email on hotmail, you have me added. I really am sorry to hear about this....I hope you feel better soon and that things work out for you soon <3 *HUGS*

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                      #11
                      Well, I just found out he's already changed his gamertag (name) on xbox, which is where we met, so that really stung...
                      You never forget your first love...

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                        #12
                        I am sorry your relationship ended, but it is better than to be with someone that isnt making you happy. :/
                        our story.

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                        02.02.2012 - When we got married and closed the distance once and for all

                        "If it is important to you, you will find a way. If not, you'll find an excuse."

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                          #13
                          *hugs* I'm so very, very sorry. I can never wrap my mind around what makes someone change into a totally different person, but you don't deserve to be treated like crap by anyone. You made the right decision. I know it's hard, but you will survive this.

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                            #14
                            Mara is right. You will survive this. It may not feel like it now, but you will. I think that when we perceive that someone has totally changed into a different person, the truth is, they are actually just being who they REALLY are.It certainly can be hard to grasp that the person that you thought you knew and that you had such high regard for, has been fooling you. I am so sorry that this has happened to you. Please don't hesitate to contact me for anything. I'm here. Loads of Hugs~

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                              #15
                              Thanks again, everyone.
                              I would love to respond more, but honestly, it still hurts too much to think or talk about, and since I'm at work responding, it's hard to say too much without wanting to cry...
                              But I did feel that you should all know your kind words are appreciated very much <3
                              You never forget your first love...

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