He really wants to get me something

[Sharon Q]

For Christmas I get to be with my SO I go to see him Monday as in this Monday three days from now
he said he'll have some money and asked what I wanted, Really I'm getting what I want - time with him.

and like if he seriously wants to get me something I really still want one of those glazed roses from Romanceher.com
But I feel like asking for a romantic sort of gift seems needy.

like I feel thats something he should surprise me with rather than me ask for it ya know?

We've always had a problem with Romance, mainly because I give too much of it and leave no room for him to give any so I'm trying to fix that and be less romantic and less clingy with it so he can show some romance if he wants to.

But really all I want is him. and I'm getting that so I'm happy

[elizabethjp2010]

give him a list of things
i gave michael a list of 5 things i wanted, than let him chose. than you dont know what it is but you do know it will be good! also its not nerdy. but i would say you want him to send you one spontaneously. plant the seed in his head so he knows!

[lucybelle]

Yeah I agree, give him a list of things you want and tell him he can only pick ONE. So it's a surprise. Plus then he'll see other things to get you for other occasions. I don't mind telling my SO to buy me flowers. He's not a mind reader. And damn am I happy to come home to a vase of flowers

[Haley53]

What if you told him you'd like to use that money to go out to dinner with him to his/your favourite place? Or a nice restaurant? That way, you're sort of compromising between what you want (spending time with him)/something more romantic and allowing him to buy you something for Christmas.

[Engel]

My SO will give me a charm for my thomas sabo watch. if not that i would want pandora charms, haha. its easy to buy gifts for me, well, at least he knows what to give me, always gives the right thing! my mother never knows what to get me.

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Yeah I agree, give him a list of things you want and tell him he can only pick ONE. So it's a surprise. Plus then he'll see other things to get you for other occasions. I don't mind telling my SO to buy me flowers. He's not a mind reader. And damn am I happy to come home to a vase of flowers

I have done that with my SO in the past. maybe thats why he is so great to give me gifts? he already saw a list of what I wanted! LMAO