Hey, I guess the world is big and we are all different! If you have his password, he has yours, and you both like to enter the partner's account... What can we say? Just don't be astonished if situations as the one you mentioned happen. What you can do, if you are so open and dont care about privacy violation, is to talk to your SO and ask him why he deleted that conversation. No? Or maybe, after reading these posts, reconsider the idea of sharing your password and entering your SO's profile.
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Yeah, I find the OP's defensiveness suss because it contradicts the language in the topic post, which was "I couldn't help but peek into his messages"; peek in particular is a verb commonly associated with furtive looking, indicating she shouldn't have been there. Nevertheless, it's not my business if someone feels entitled to read their partner's mail - which is what this amounts to. And maybe it was just a poor choice of words in the original post, which gave the wrong impression.
Whatever.
My advice to the OP is sit down with your SO, come clean about your snooping, take any medicine he has to dish out for that behaviour, and then ask him if you can have an honest dialogue about his relationship with this woman, because you are feeling nervous and insecure about it. At worst, you'll learn something that won't make you happy, but which you really do need to know. At best, maybe he can set your mind at rest.Comment
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