I need to try to curb my stubbornness, defensiveness and over-sensitivity to certain things. My ex-husband was such an insecure, over critical bully, that I have trouble realizing not everything is a criticism, and not every time a fault is recognized is it intended to hurt.
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Our separation of each other is an optical illusion of consciousness. ~Albert Einstein -
stop making the distance such a large part of the relationship.Comment
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I need to work on not being so easily disappointed by my SO... he's pretty wonderful but when he's not I'm easily disappointed...Comment
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Stop being so self-obsessed. Not everything he does reflects on me. Also, I do a lot of the things he does as well, but when he does them it bothers me and I seek for hidden meanings, but when I do it I don't even notice it, or have a good explanation. Really not fair.
Also, I need more courage. Generally in life, not just in a relationship.
Like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. - Steve JobsComment
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Just in relation to myself, I want to FIND MOTIVATION TO LIFE!!! Omg I procrastinate every single little thing until I absolutely have to do it. I'm currently realizing that online courses are not for me :/
In my relationship: Stop talking to him when I'm having a negative bi polar day!!! Jesus. I have days were I hate everything, just because. No real reason. And I keep yelling at him for it! It's like PMS but a thousand times worse. I always apologize after, but then I do it again. Geez, one day this kid is going to give up on me D:
"In order to attain the impossible, one must attempt the absurd."
-Miguel De Cervantes
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