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[Jellybean♥Teletubbie]

I remember seeing your thread months ago, and thinking how sad it was.. and how similar it was to another person who lied to get attention on another forum (like others have mentioned). I don't honestly know what to think of this entire thing, but I hope that if your SO does exist then he is well, and I am happy for his loved ones. I also hope that his friend gets the help he needs. I don't honestly know what to say to you because I don't want to say that I hope this has taught you to be more careful. This situation would be horrible for anyone to go through so I am sorry that you had to go through it.

One thing in general though, although I do not know you personally, but I would honestly hope that you (and/or any other member) would have enough respect for all of us on here not to lie about something.

I would never lie about anything like this..especially something so serious. I re read my post and I admit it sounds kind of fake, I don't understand how I could prove to everyone that this is true though. I guess I just suck at showing emotion when I type or something...I don't know. Thank you though

[garnet]

Lets give her the benefit of the doubt... these weird things DO happen. Rarely, but they do...

[Shepard-Fowkes]

I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt here, because your post from a few months ago really tore at my heartstrings. That's the perspective from which I'm telling you:

RUN.

This all sounds really fishy. People don't emerge from month-long comas from complications of liver failure that quickly and without side effects. I don't know who or why, but somebody is getting their jollies on playing with your emotions. If you won't listen to us then listen to your mother, ask her more about why she doesn't like this situation if you have to. I know at times it doesn't seem like it, but (in most cases) your parents are there to protect you and do the best they can for you. I agree with your mom. I'm seeing so many red flags here. I know that you love him and I know that you want this, but this is a Bad Situation. Protect yourself and get out of there!

[digitalfever]

I would never lie about anything like this..especially something so serious. I re read my post and I admit it sounds kind of fake, I don't understand how I could prove to everyone that this is true though. I guess I just suck at showing emotion when I type or something...I don't know. Thank you though

I don’t really think it’s a matter of who is lying and who isn’t. That’s a moot point here. For your sake I do hope that he’s real and well etc...

However, from the story it seems fishy especially that he just bounced back from being in a coma and messaged you to say he’s OK. Comas are normally caused by severe head injury, infections involving the brain, overdose, strokes etc... A coma is not just a random thing that can come and go without serious health implications… well sometimes it can but that is rare. Some people come out of a coma without any mental or physical disability, but most require at least some type of therapy to regain back basic skills.

[Biddlybiddlybombop]

I'm agreeing with everyone else here. It's all a bit suspect. It's one of the reasons why I believe people should try to protect themselves and stay on their guard, to a degree, before they meet their LDR partner in person. I know sometimes it can take a long time, and there are people around who manage to build a successful, stable relationship before they meet, but I would be wary of this guy.
I can see you're all set to carry on this relationship, but I can also see the merit of what people are saying here. There seems to be a hell of a lot of drama surrounding this guy, and if it is all as he says it is, then I feel for him. Take care of yourself, step carefully.

[Jellybean♥Teletubbie]

I don’t really think it’s a matter of who is lying and who isn’t. That’s a moot point here. For your sake I do hope that he’s real and well etc...

However, from the story it seems fishy especially that he just bounced back from being in a coma and messaged you to say he’s OK. Comas are normally caused by severe head injury, infections involving the brain, overdose, strokes etc... A coma is not just a random thing that can come and go without serious health implications… well sometimes it can but that is rare. Some people come out of a coma without any mental or physical disability, but most require at least some type of therapy to regain back basic skills.

Well pain medication doesn't work on him so since he felt the intense pain of surgery, it could've made him go into the coma. He also did lose a lot of wieght, I can tell. He is going to show me the stitches he got today from the operation. After that then I know for sure everything is okay.

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I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt here, because your post from a few months ago really tore at my heartstrings. That's the perspective from which I'm telling you:

RUN.

This all sounds really fishy. People don't emerge from month-long comas from complications of liver failure that quickly and without side effects. I don't know who or why, but somebody is getting their jollies on playing with your emotions. If you won't listen to us then listen to your mother, ask her more about why she doesn't like this situation if you have to. I know at times it doesn't seem like it, but (in most cases) your parents are there to protect you and do the best they can for you. I agree with your mom. I'm seeing so many red flags here. I know that you love him and I know that you want this, but this is a Bad Situation. Protect yourself and get out of there!

He isn't a bad person, it was all his friend. So I'm not in danger or anything unless his friend does something again but that probably won't happen now that Raehan can do something about it if he does. I know all of you guys are worried but I'm safe, Raehan is a good person.

[Moon]

I'm pretty sure by your responses that you aren't going to listen to this one, but I'll try anyway.

I remember reading your last thread and either thinking it was fake, or that you were getting the biggest, most unbelievable bullshit story ever, which is why I didn't bother to respond. Look, people, especially young ones, don't just wake up one day needing a liver transplant. Generally, and there are exceptions, there is a long period of declining illness first. Also, unless someone in his family donated an organ, people wait YEARS on the transplant list before getting an organ, more people die waiting than actually getting one. In other words, the chances of him feeling sick one day and popping into the emergency room, and walking out with a brand spanking new liver are almost impossible. Do your research on this. If you still choose to talk to this guy again, I'd ask for a hell of a lot more evidence than his scar.

Your mother isn't allowing you to talk to him anymore because she's wiser than you, she knows there's something wrong here. Sweetie, I think you're being played hard, and by a story that's not even near well done. Could I be wrong about this? Sure, stranger things have happened to people, but I can almost guarantee you I'm not. Too many things in this story simply don't add up or make sense. Listen to your mom and get out now, this is not going to have a good conclusion.

[Shepard-Fowkes]

Well pain medication doesn't work on him so since he felt the intense pain of surgery, it could've made him go into the coma. He also did lose a lot of wieght, I can tell. He is going to show me the stitches he got today from the operation. After that then I know for sure everything is okay.

He isn't a bad person, it was all his friend. So I'm not in danger or anything unless his friend does something again but that probably won't happen now that Raehan can do something about it if he does. I know all of you guys are worried but I'm safe, Raehan is a good person.

No. People don't go into comas from "intense pain". People go into comas because of brain damage. I'm not sure where this fellow is that it didn't take months and months on a transplant list for him to get a new liver. And if he truly was in a coma, he would have a LOT more problems than just looking a bit skinny and having a scar.

Nice people can still do bad things. You aren't safe. I believe this man is lying to you. Moon's right; you're getting played. Hard. Cut your losses while you still can and cut him out of your life. I think some people are playing a sick joke on you, and I believe he's in on it. Keep asking questions about this, and keep a suspicious eye on him. Things aren't adding up. You have to look out for him lying. For example: him getting up and moving around without pain, no neurological damage from being in a month-long coma, making up strange and tall tales with details that don't add up. Demand to see medical bills, demand actual proof. I doubt he will be able to give you any. Just let him go.

[Dziubka]

To be fair, she did mention in another post that he was an alcoholic and depending on where he lives, there don't necessarily have to be medical bills. I know that in my country if you have state healthcare, the doctor sends the bills directly to your insurance. I've never seen a medical bill in my life.

That said, I too, believe that the story is a bit too unlikely (and what was that about him having a leg amputated?). I second what Shepard-Fowkes and Moon said to you, cut your losses and RUN (or block his screenname anyway).

[Jellybean♥Teletubbie]

I understand what you guys are telling me and I have a feeling he did fake his death however I'm not completely sure and I'm not just going to get away from him because what if he is telling the truth? I am going to find out myself and see what happens. I just can't give up on him yet, I need to figure everything out.

[garnet]

I understand what you guys are telling me and I have a feeling he did fake his death

Okay, I change my answer. Honestly your posts are starting to make me wonder now, thats a pretty big one to toss out there. That being said, if you are totally for real, and I know you say you are, run away.
My fathers situation had me baffled as all heck but it's just better to get away from it. Don't look back. :/

[Sora1101]

All I have to say is watch the movie Catfish. I would tell you more about it but I think it would ruin the integrity of the film, all I can say is it truly relates to your situation and I think it would do you good to watch it, it's not very long, 2 hours tops so if you have time I really really think it could shed some light on things.

[SquishyLove]

All I have to say is watch the movie Catfish. I would tell you more about it but I think it would ruin the integrity of the film, all I can say is it truly relates to your situation and I think it would do you good to watch it, it's not very long, 2 hours tops so if you have time I really really think it could shed some light on things.

Wow, I thought I was the only one who heard of that movie! It is a good film to watch in relation to this situation, OP!

[Joyce:)]

He's from the UK, right? so yeah he wouldn't have medical bills.. but.. I may be wrong, but don't people with liver problems caused by alcoholism get put super down on the transplant list? Sounds real fishy he would get a liver just like that

[floridaellen]

He's from the UK, right? so yeah he wouldn't have medical bills.. but.. I may be wrong, but don't people with liver problems caused by alcoholism get put super down on the transplant list? Sounds real fishy he would get a liver just like that

I agree. It takes a long time to get a new organ, especially if you are the one who caused it.