Valentines Day Blues

[sarahsmith]

If you don't like hearing people complain or if you're one of those people that says "complaining won't get you anywhere", then I strongly suggest you get off this thread and go read a different one. Sometimes a girl just gotta vent! Anyone else not looking forward to February 14th? I know i'm not. My plans for that day consist of me watching sappy movies and stuffing my face with ice cream. Definitely going to be missing my guy. I'm sending him a card for valentines day and I think he'll like it but it just not the same as getting to be with eachother. Thats the true and BEST gift any couple could receive on that day. The worst part is going to be seeing all the happy couples walk around holding roses and kissing eachother. It's going to be one tough day. Anyone else feeling the blues as well? Feel free to comment and vent all you want!

[snow_girl]

Are you able to skype or call him at all? Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, why not look at all the love you do have to share and how lucky you are to be with your SO? Invite some friends over and make a girly night out of it, spread the love to your friends!

[digitalfever]

There is this one girl in one of my classes and her group of friends are doing a girls night in. Drinking wine, exchanging gifts and watching cute movies. Why not do that? I think it's such a cute idea and V-day doesn't have to be about being in a relationship my mom even though she was dating someone used to spend v-day with me when I was younger. Once year she brought home Bambie II and some greek food and we chilled.

[kiara_silver]

I agree with snow_girl. And focusing on the love. Yes of course it's not going to be as great as spending it in person, but you can still celebrate it together. You said your sending him a card, maybe he's sending you one too? And maybe watch those sappy movies with him? Make it a movie date? Valentines day is a day to celebrate your love, doesn't matter if its from a distance or not.

[DollOnAMusicBox]

My boyfriend lost track of valentines day and my younger sister just got a new boyfriend and they've been cuddling all over the house. SO I get my valentines day after the 25th, because thats payday for my bf and the end of the moth is our 2 and a half month mark. Not that we celebrate half anniversaries, but...I thought I'd give him a second chance because he's been so busy.

Needless to say, I'm not really looking forward to Feb 14. Plus its on a Tuesday and I've got class from 11-7.

[dukes2011]

Definitely not looking forward to Tuesday either since my schedule is crazy too and I won't get to see my man. We probably won't get to Skype but we'll at least talk on the phone. I'm dreading seeing a bunch of couples together too, but I'm going to make it through and so will all of us. Concentrate on the love part and remember how special LDR love is because not everyone can love from a distance.

[meganpillow]

I'll be studying for a major test on V-Day....! T.T And hopefully stuff my face off with ice cream as well as I talk to my So through a computer screen. Sigh. I feel you girl.

[Zapookie]

I look forward to it because I'm just thankful that I have someone to share it with, even if I can't be with him on that day in person and won't get to see him for another 2 or 3 months! Sure I wish I could be with him, but there's nothing I can really do about that so I just try and focus on the positives. See if you can skype with your SO or maybe even a phone call if thats not possible.

[Engel]

this is the second valentines day my SO and I get to spend together, in more than 3 years together! and all be our first as a marrie couple. but i don't see what the huge deal with valentines is, never did, when i was single i couldn't care less, and would go out to a singles night out on valentines and just enjoy myself. i see some people complaining about being single on valentines day, and i don't get it. being single is also great, you get to know yourself better, in a way you can't when you are in a relationship.
i can understand missing your SO if you are in a relationship but its long distance, though. because thats how i felt everyday we were apart. wasn't more or specially on valentines. was all the time!

for me, valentines just gives us one more reason to eat in a restaurant or something, but besides that it is a normal day, like any other

[Kairi19]

I am kind of sad that I can't spend tomorrow with my SO, but to be honest I don't see the big deal about the actual day. I don't think there should be just one specific day a year that we treat our partner extra specially, you should be doing that all the time It's just another way for shops and card companies to make more money. Plus it's our one year anniversary next month so we'll probably make more of an effort with that

[HollzHeartsChris]

I'm just pretending tomorrow is going to be like every other day, that way I won't get upset thinking about it This time last year wasn't great and I know this year it's going to suck too, so for now, forgetting about Valentine's Day!

Hope everyone else has a good time though (:

[Rugger]

I, like Hollz am pretending it's just another day. I'll go to work like I always do and go about my normal routine. No reason to get bent out of shape.

I'll see my love Saturday and we'll celebrate then.

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I, like Hollz am pretending it's just another day. I'll go to work like I always do and go about my normal routine. No reason to get bent out of shape.

I'll see my love Saturday and we'll celebrate then.

[nicole]

This will be our second Valentine's apart. Last year I didn't get to see my SO much at all, and I wasn't allowed to go out with my single friends because one of them threw a hissy fit because even though I was alone, I wasn't single. This year is a vast improvement lol Still on a high from my visa approval and we have wine and small gifts to open. We don't make too much fuss for Valentine's anyway, so it's not so bad. We have plenty of other days which are special to us, not because of a holiday, but because we've made them special, so I'm glad I'm not missing any of those this year instead of Valentines.

[~whendarknessfalls]

I'll be studying for a major test on V-Day....! T.T And hopefully stuff my face off with ice cream as well as I talk to my So through a computer screen. Sigh. I feel you girl.

I'm with you on this one girl. -_-

[lucybelle]

I don't know, I think stuffing your face with ice cream and watching sappy movies sounds like a great night!