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    Saying goodbye

    I must say goodbye to Loving From A Distance. I'm just assuming my girlfriend doesn't want to be with me anymore. She just decided to stop taking my calls or returning my texts. Every time I tried to see her she had some excuse. I know she is extremely busy but there is always time. I hadn't seen her in eight months whether it be in person or skyping. We just talked occasionally or through texts whenever she would respond. I just figure after all I did for her, whether it was sending her packages of food across the country to her school so she didn't have to eat crap or sending her flowers every month for our anniversary, you would think she would have at least had the courage to call it off instead of just ignoring. The last few times we did talk she seemed cold and aloof. I don't know what happened. All I know is that she pretty much destroyed me at this point. I'll be ok eventually but I just feel like it was all a waste. All I did. Forgive me, but I don't mean to complain. Just needed to get this out to people who would understand. But I want to wish everyone the best in their relationships. I still believe that LDRs can work. Take care.
    Jared

    #2
    I'm so sorry this has happened to you. It's not right, and it's not fair. Take care, you'll be in my thoughts.

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      #3
      I think what is killing me most is why? And I'll never know which sucks.

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        #4
        I think you have the right to know what's happening and you should confront her so you can ease your heart and mind, maybe not immediately, but in time...

        “Laughing like children, living like lovers, rolling like thunder under the covers”

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          #5
          That's really mean and sad... I hope you get to talk to her at some point, I'm sorry for you! You'll be in my thoughts.

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            #6
            Im sorry ''/
            thats very harsh.
            id hate it if my SO just stopped talking to me,
            i hope things get better for u,
            of course LD can work. she just wasnt very interested.

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              #7
              I'm sorry. This girl makes me feel bad just being the same gender as her. I'm sorry you're going through this. Many hugs & good wishes. Take care, okay?

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                #8
                Sorry to hear this!

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                  #9
                  I'm so sorry... what a callous way to be treated I do hope life starts to look up for you again very soon! Take care, dear.

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                    #10
                    So sorry. If you ever need some friends we are always here.
                    Got together Jan 3, 2011~ Closed the Distance March 23, 2012~ Living Together Since June 19 2012~ Future TBD......

                    I miss you more than I ever could have believed; and I was prepared to miss you a good deal." ~ Vita Sackville-west

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                      #11
                      I'm sorry. =[ That's terrible of her to do that. You'll find someone who actually appreciates the sweet gestures and treats you right. You deserve to be treated well.

                      "Do I love you? My God, if your love were a grain of sand, mine would be a universe of beaches."

                      Like a drum, my heart never stops beating for you.

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                        #12
                        Thanks for the kind words. I might just stay on the site just because of the kindness from all of you. Thank you so much. It helps a lot.

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                          #13
                          That is horrible news for you... like the others have said, do confront her in time for some answers, you will appreciate the closure... take care in the future what ever it brings x x

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                            #14
                            No reason to fret people who don't actually care about you, man.
                            I know you'll have lingering feelings for her, but it takes a pretty cold person to just up and leave without explanation or response. She doesn't deserve any tears.

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                              #15
                              sorry hun. I wish you nothing but the best.

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