Hi LDR community,
I need some serious advice. My LDR is going on 6 years and it looks like its going to be another 4 b/c of grad school. My mom and I are super close, I tell her EVERYTHING. But thats just the problem, every time I have an issue with my BF I go to her. I have went to friends before but I practically ran them away because of my constant "I miss him" and "When is he coming to visit." and "He is such a jerk". But the level of crazy has reached its peak. Over spring break I said enough is enough, I can't do LDR anymore and broke it off. (Mind you this has happened several times and I always come crawling back). BUT I have decided ONCE AND FOR ALL not talk to ANYONE about my problems (except yall) because it frankly makes things a lot worse between my BF and I.
My mom is under the impression that I have moved on but we are back together. I told her I was coming home from school and my BF will take me home. She said, "Oh, so your talking to HIM again?" What am I going to do?? I don't want to have an argument with my mom for the millionth time about my BF.
How can I convince her that I plan on staying with him no matter what? How can I stop coming to her every time he pisses me off?
Thanks
I need some serious advice. My LDR is going on 6 years and it looks like its going to be another 4 b/c of grad school. My mom and I are super close, I tell her EVERYTHING. But thats just the problem, every time I have an issue with my BF I go to her. I have went to friends before but I practically ran them away because of my constant "I miss him" and "When is he coming to visit." and "He is such a jerk". But the level of crazy has reached its peak. Over spring break I said enough is enough, I can't do LDR anymore and broke it off. (Mind you this has happened several times and I always come crawling back). BUT I have decided ONCE AND FOR ALL not talk to ANYONE about my problems (except yall) because it frankly makes things a lot worse between my BF and I.
My mom is under the impression that I have moved on but we are back together. I told her I was coming home from school and my BF will take me home. She said, "Oh, so your talking to HIM again?" What am I going to do?? I don't want to have an argument with my mom for the millionth time about my BF.
How can I convince her that I plan on staying with him no matter what? How can I stop coming to her every time he pisses me off?
Thanks
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