Its Over!

[NYlovesFL]

Wow now i see the true colors of people on here. First of all none of you that say i am cold know the story!!! E-mail was the best thing for several reasons 1) he works night and I work days- none of us are allowed personal phone calls. 2) because of the schedule we rarely talked to each other anymore. 3) He wouldn't of let me express everything. 4) We talked after wards (2 days later) when he finally ws able to have time to talk. 5) It was not fair to wait 2 days to tell him when he would text me i love u and etc here and there, that is just leading someone on.

So before you JUDGE know the story, the background, and etc. I wasn't going to send me a text to wake up to or deal with at work...that would have been cold and cruel.

Or just ending an e-mail saying its over I can't do this and that is it, would have been cold and cruel.

So again know the situation before you judge someone.

[NYlovesFL]

P.S. we are still friends and we still love each other and talk so again back off

[snow_girl]

The first thing you posted before just rewriting it was enough you didn't need to rewrite it and sound bitchy about it. You are right we didn't know the whole story so we could only go off of what you gave us. In most cases it is cold to break up over email.

[Rugger]

The first thing you posted before just rewriting it was enough you didn't need to rewrite it and sound bitchy about it. You are right we didn't know the whole story so we could only go off of what you gave us. In most cases it is cold to break up over email.

This you can't really expect people to get things right if you don't give them the information. There's not need to get up in arms over it.

I'm sorry your relationship ended this way. Good luck in the future.

[NYlovesFL]

Snow no offense but your post came off very (in yours words) bitchy and judging and i didn't appericate that when everyone on here is suppose to be supportive and nice.

[Minerva]

The "true colors" you're talking about are people who honestly speak their minds, who don't sugarcoat their opinions, and who still offer support and the best of luck even if they don't agree with you. Not everyone in the world is going to applaud your every choice; you're not a child and the world isn't your mother. Stop acting petulant because a few people criticized something you only half-explained. People, I might add, who also offered you sympathy and best wishes despite not agreeing with how you handled things.

[NYlovesFL]

I take everything back.
You are all pathetic trying to find love long distance because you can't find it in your own backyard. More than half of you on here are under 24 yrs of age and havent even experienced life.

Good luck to me ...no good luck to all of you because there is going to be a time that half of you on here will be single again.

[snow_girl]

Wow very mature.

[Biddlybiddlybombop]

Snow no offense but your post came off very (in yours words) bitchy and judging and i didn't appericate that when everyone on here is suppose to be supportive and nice.

I don't think there's any need to continue an argument. You did the best thing for you, and at the end of the day, the only person who can best judge your situation is you . I'm sorry for your break up. It's hard being dumped, and it's hard doing the dumping, regardless of HOW it's done.

I do want to say that people here ARE supportive - but they are also truthful about their opinions. In most cases, it is helpful and constructive. In some cases, it's not so helpful. When it's not so helpful, it's best to just ignore it and move on. You have to remember that this is a PUBLIC forum - you are free to post as you wish, but so are others. You won't always hear what you want.

NYlovesFL, I think this thread might be best locked now. Everyone's said their part, and we all wish you the best through this break up.

[Minerva]

I take everything back.
You are all pathetic trying to find love long distance because you can't find it in your own backyard. More than half of you on here are under 24 yrs of age and havent even experienced life.

Good luck to me ...no good luck to all of you because there is going to be a time that half of you on here will be single again.

Oh grow up. I am MUCH older than 24 (also older than 28), and I have plenty of life experience, including a divorce and being a mom. In fact, as a mom, I find you acting less mature than my 10 year old. You are in no place to lecture people on their ages or life style choices when you throw a tantrum because people don't agree with you.

[Softy]

I am very sorry to hear it did not work well for you.

As most say, LDR is not easy, it's very very rough and that is why we are all here, to share the wait, joy, pain we all go through.

But from reading you, it's not only a 'LDR' issue, it's also what you want of of a relationship and what he wants that is different (aka marriage,kids and such).

I hope you feel better and find happiness sweets.

/hug

[Shepard-Fowkes]

I take everything back.
You are all pathetic trying to find love long distance because you can't find it in your own backyard. More than half of you on here are under 24 yrs of age and havent even experienced life.

Good luck to me ...no good luck to all of you because there is going to be a time that half of you on here will be single again.

You break up with someone over email, throw a hissy fit over strangers not coddling you, and then say this? That's immature, petty, and just plain sad. Were you not also just in a long distance relationship? You're clearly feeling upset, but that doesn't mean you can take it out on other people. I'm sorry you feel like life isn't treating you fairly, but it doesn't have to.

[floridaellen]

I take everything back.
You are all pathetic trying to find love long distance because you can't find it in your own backyard. More than half of you on here are under 24 yrs of age and havent even experienced life.

Good luck to me ...no good luck to all of you because there is going to be a time that half of you on here will be single again.

I find this post incredibly ironic.

Some people on here, including me, have been burned by breakup emails/texts, hence why we were wary. Had you explained yourself fully in the first post, I doubt we would have had a problem with the email.

I wish you luck in the future. Everyone deserves happiness, whether it's from a distance or from 5 minutes away.