Hi,
In a few weeks I'll be going to see my girlfriend. I couldn't be more excited to see her but here's the problem:-Around the same time I get there, her ex boyfriend will be coming back from college for the summer...
I definitely do not want to meet him but unfortunately he's friends with my girlfriend's close circle of friends.
So why don't I want to meet him? He raped my girlfriend and abused my girlfriend a lot during the last year of their relationship. The worst part is her friends don't have any idea about it and neither do her parents...
Am I being out of line by refusing to meet him? I can't just act like nothing happened. I can't forgive him for treating her like that... Personally I think the guy should be in jail or at least be as far away from her as possible!
Your thoughts? Thanks in advance!
Ross
In a few weeks I'll be going to see my girlfriend. I couldn't be more excited to see her but here's the problem:-Around the same time I get there, her ex boyfriend will be coming back from college for the summer...
I definitely do not want to meet him but unfortunately he's friends with my girlfriend's close circle of friends.
So why don't I want to meet him? He raped my girlfriend and abused my girlfriend a lot during the last year of their relationship. The worst part is her friends don't have any idea about it and neither do her parents...
Am I being out of line by refusing to meet him? I can't just act like nothing happened. I can't forgive him for treating her like that... Personally I think the guy should be in jail or at least be as far away from her as possible!
Your thoughts? Thanks in advance!
Ross
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