So my SO and I have been having a rough time lately. There has been some talk of potential break ups. She says she just hasn't felt the same over the past couple weeks. Now there's a lot of situational factors (busy jobs, depression ect.) but other than that we decided to sit down and talk out our problems.
Pretty much she says if I want this to work I have to man up. I realize I've been relying on her too much and not thinking for myself. She also told me she needs more space. I also have a bad habit of always agreeing with her and she's afraid I'm giving up on my dreams for her. I really want to save this relationship, she really means a lot to me.
I don't really know what sort of advice Im asking for. I guess how do I be more of a man? How do I be more responsible? Should we take a break from the relationship so I can fix my personal issues? Im going to see her in 16 days, maybe we can figure out something then? Even if it doesnt work out these are changes I have to make in my life anyways.
Im sorry if this post is making little to no sense, Im kinda out of it right now.
Pretty much she says if I want this to work I have to man up. I realize I've been relying on her too much and not thinking for myself. She also told me she needs more space. I also have a bad habit of always agreeing with her and she's afraid I'm giving up on my dreams for her. I really want to save this relationship, she really means a lot to me.
I don't really know what sort of advice Im asking for. I guess how do I be more of a man? How do I be more responsible? Should we take a break from the relationship so I can fix my personal issues? Im going to see her in 16 days, maybe we can figure out something then? Even if it doesnt work out these are changes I have to make in my life anyways.
Im sorry if this post is making little to no sense, Im kinda out of it right now.
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