As Johnny Depp would say in this situation, if you love two people at the same time choose the second one because if you really loved the first one you wouldnt have fallen for the second.
This is what comes to my mind every time I hear about people cheating, I don't buy that bullcrap excuse about feeling lonely or needing attention especially when it comes to LDR's there are tons of us here who hardly if ever see their SO, like myself who sees my SO once a year, and you don't see us cheating. It's all excuses and if you truly love someone you would never do anything to intentionally harm them, I would have given you different advice had you only kissed this other guy once, sure an honest if still horrible mistake because you were caught up in the moment, but the second time is inexcusable, you should have immediately distanced yourself from him as soon as the first kiss happened not wait around for it to happen again, you don't just "accidentally" cuddle with someone either you knew what you were doing I don't care how lonely you were. That's just a slap in the face to your SO and it's completely uncalled for.
This is what comes to my mind every time I hear about people cheating, I don't buy that bullcrap excuse about feeling lonely or needing attention especially when it comes to LDR's there are tons of us here who hardly if ever see their SO, like myself who sees my SO once a year, and you don't see us cheating. It's all excuses and if you truly love someone you would never do anything to intentionally harm them, I would have given you different advice had you only kissed this other guy once, sure an honest if still horrible mistake because you were caught up in the moment, but the second time is inexcusable, you should have immediately distanced yourself from him as soon as the first kiss happened not wait around for it to happen again, you don't just "accidentally" cuddle with someone either you knew what you were doing I don't care how lonely you were. That's just a slap in the face to your SO and it's completely uncalled for.
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