So for the past few weeks I've been dealing with a pretty unconfortable situation. It's about my boyfriend, a friend and me.
I'll try to make it short..
I met a guy at the gym I go to, and we became friends. At first it all seemed okay we got along really well, but when I told him I had a boyfriend, he... changed. He became a lot sweeter and started texting me and getting online more often so we talked more, until a week ago or so he told me that he liked me.
I've been "ignoring" the fact that he likes me and trying to act normal since I consider we're good friends.
And my boyfriend, well, I know he will never ask me to stop seeing someone just because of that, but he didn't like the situation at all I feel.
What made it all unconfortable is that the other day, I was talking with my friend and he started saying something about my boy, about him being away and blabla, what I understood of it is that he was like suggesting that I dump him so he gets green light.
..Excuse me? Are you really telling me to dump the boy I'm in love with, who I've gone through A LOT with, for someone who I met not so long ago and doesn't really care about MY feelings? Are you serious!?.... Pfff.
So since that happened, I just act civil around him. But it's still unconfortable and he doesn't seem to give up.
I have to clarify that I love my boyfriend and I don't want to hurt this friend.
Has anyone ever been in this kind of situation?
Some opinion or suggestion? Thank you.
I'll try to make it short..
I met a guy at the gym I go to, and we became friends. At first it all seemed okay we got along really well, but when I told him I had a boyfriend, he... changed. He became a lot sweeter and started texting me and getting online more often so we talked more, until a week ago or so he told me that he liked me.
I've been "ignoring" the fact that he likes me and trying to act normal since I consider we're good friends.
And my boyfriend, well, I know he will never ask me to stop seeing someone just because of that, but he didn't like the situation at all I feel.
What made it all unconfortable is that the other day, I was talking with my friend and he started saying something about my boy, about him being away and blabla, what I understood of it is that he was like suggesting that I dump him so he gets green light.
..Excuse me? Are you really telling me to dump the boy I'm in love with, who I've gone through A LOT with, for someone who I met not so long ago and doesn't really care about MY feelings? Are you serious!?.... Pfff.
So since that happened, I just act civil around him. But it's still unconfortable and he doesn't seem to give up.
I have to clarify that I love my boyfriend and I don't want to hurt this friend.
Has anyone ever been in this kind of situation?
Some opinion or suggestion? Thank you.
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