o.o Actually theres nothing really awesome about this thread. ITS A TRAP!
No but seriously Im pretty sure we broke. I say pretty sure because this was happened. The main excuse I was accepting about not having our first yet was because my city has one of the most expensive airfare rates in the US but then I discovered MegaBus. (we were one month shy of a 2 year anniversary btw)
--> Mega Bus is a really good option if you're strapped for cash. You can get a rountrip ticket for 2 bucks and 50 cents. 1 dollar going and 1 dollar coming back and 50 cents processing fee (I figure maybe something good could come out of this for somebody else right?) <----
So he agreed that he would pick me up from the megabus stop and we'd have a whole week before school started back for both of us. At this time I was super excited, booked the tickets, put in for my vacation days and was freaking out over what kind of matching underwear to buy or if I should buy them at all.
And then ... I just got totally blindsighted. Suddenly he was saying well Im dealing with a lot of "family stuff" right now and Im feeling over burdened .... keep in mind this is like 2 or 3 weeks later. So I said okay. I was terribly disappointed but I accepted it again like I always do but then i asked if you ever really plan to have a visit and he got all moody and what not.
To make a long story shorter he asked could we just be friends. I said no. Im not the kind of person that can be friends with an ex. I have to cut you off completely and probably spend a little time hating you so I can move on so I told him that and suddenly he's like "oh wait! Forget what I said! I dont want to lose you" .... so like a idiot I stayed for a week later but then I started noticing that when he stopped sending me his usual mushie texts and the like the one time we spoke on the phone afterwards he didn't say I love you like he used to so I let it ride for a few more days and finally I called him on it and he was like "I want to be friends." So I told him I had no intention of being his friends so if thats the way he wants it we can say goodbye now and this douche bag tries to make me feel guilty saying "You know Im having a hard time, you want me to be alone?! You know I love you so much and blah blah" .... Im tired of being put, not on the back burner, but on the shelf and then taken down only when he needs something"
Now before you call me a bish or something his terms of still "being together" are you just be around when I need someone to talk but I can't return the favor because Im just so busy.
I think Im a pretty supportive person but if you can't tell me what exactly the problem is how I can support you. So I sent him a long text saying exactly how I felt and Im not going to be his friend
his reply was "...."
I already deleted all his pics and contact info out of my phone and everything and I dont know how to take "..." so Im assuming we're done. This has been going on for a few days and everytime I get calm with no longer being with him he calls or texts. I can deal with anger better than sadness so Im trying to channel my regret into anger. Im just really pissed that I went through all that trouble letting him in and making decisions under the assumption he was the end for me now I have to go back and undo some of the choices I made on his behalf ... awesome
But atleast you know about the megabus if you didnt before :P
No but seriously Im pretty sure we broke. I say pretty sure because this was happened. The main excuse I was accepting about not having our first yet was because my city has one of the most expensive airfare rates in the US but then I discovered MegaBus. (we were one month shy of a 2 year anniversary btw)
--> Mega Bus is a really good option if you're strapped for cash. You can get a rountrip ticket for 2 bucks and 50 cents. 1 dollar going and 1 dollar coming back and 50 cents processing fee (I figure maybe something good could come out of this for somebody else right?) <----
So he agreed that he would pick me up from the megabus stop and we'd have a whole week before school started back for both of us. At this time I was super excited, booked the tickets, put in for my vacation days and was freaking out over what kind of matching underwear to buy or if I should buy them at all.
And then ... I just got totally blindsighted. Suddenly he was saying well Im dealing with a lot of "family stuff" right now and Im feeling over burdened .... keep in mind this is like 2 or 3 weeks later. So I said okay. I was terribly disappointed but I accepted it again like I always do but then i asked if you ever really plan to have a visit and he got all moody and what not.
To make a long story shorter he asked could we just be friends. I said no. Im not the kind of person that can be friends with an ex. I have to cut you off completely and probably spend a little time hating you so I can move on so I told him that and suddenly he's like "oh wait! Forget what I said! I dont want to lose you" .... so like a idiot I stayed for a week later but then I started noticing that when he stopped sending me his usual mushie texts and the like the one time we spoke on the phone afterwards he didn't say I love you like he used to so I let it ride for a few more days and finally I called him on it and he was like "I want to be friends." So I told him I had no intention of being his friends so if thats the way he wants it we can say goodbye now and this douche bag tries to make me feel guilty saying "You know Im having a hard time, you want me to be alone?! You know I love you so much and blah blah" .... Im tired of being put, not on the back burner, but on the shelf and then taken down only when he needs something"
Now before you call me a bish or something his terms of still "being together" are you just be around when I need someone to talk but I can't return the favor because Im just so busy.
I think Im a pretty supportive person but if you can't tell me what exactly the problem is how I can support you. So I sent him a long text saying exactly how I felt and Im not going to be his friend
his reply was "...."
I already deleted all his pics and contact info out of my phone and everything and I dont know how to take "..." so Im assuming we're done. This has been going on for a few days and everytime I get calm with no longer being with him he calls or texts. I can deal with anger better than sadness so Im trying to channel my regret into anger. Im just really pissed that I went through all that trouble letting him in and making decisions under the assumption he was the end for me now I have to go back and undo some of the choices I made on his behalf ... awesome
But atleast you know about the megabus if you didnt before :P
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