I don't like these bad nights were you miss them so terribly that you end up crying your eyes out. The nights were you would give anything to just spend 5 minutes hugging them. What do you do on these nights? I don't know what to do but sit here and cry.
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Made it official: 12-01-10
First visit: 3-29-13/4-09-13
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Generally, I just went with sitting and crying. Or writing a letter and crying. There was a lot of crying, I admit. Occasionally there was a frustrated punching of pillows as well.Happily married to the little Canadian boy I never thought I'd meet in person
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Agreed about the crying. I just give in.
Met online: 1/30/11
Met in person: 5/30/12
Second visit: 9/12/12
Closed the distance: 1/26/13!!!Comment
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Yes crying or posting on lfad. That seems to help me too. Hang in there. We've all been there and know how it feels *hugs*Comment
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err crying unstoppably, and just giving in.Comment
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Honestly most of the time I just crawl into bed and shut off all the lights and hug a pillow really tight and fall asleep crying. It's not pretty and it's not a good answer to how to deal with it, but it's sometimes how we have to handle things when we can't be close to our SO's in the flesh.Jacob&Heather
Met: June 2019Dating: December 2019First Meeting: April 2020 (Coming soon!)
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I just let myself cry to get it out of my system... it helps me feel so much better. If it's really hard, I'll email a friend or post here, especially in the "I Love Him/Her Today" thread because that helps me focus on the positive aspects of our relationship. It's definitely tough, but hang in there. <3Comment
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just cry until my face hurt, its all you can do to release your frusterationComment
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Crying always works for me...i feel that if I dont cry and get it out of my system, then i get kind of crabby...so its best to cry! Keep your head up and know that things can only get better!Comment
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I despise crying or appearing weak in any form so when I have those feelings it tends to lead to frustration. I'll admit I've given in and cried into a pillow. Sometimes its all you can do but the moment will pass
“The ties that binds us are sometimes impossible to explain. They connect us even after it seems like the ties should be broken. Some bonds defy distance and time and logic; Because some ties are simply… meant to be.” - Grey’s Anatomy
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Most of the time if I'm really missing him I'll just send him a text even though he is sometimes asleep and won't always get it. I check out pics of our vacations and trips together or write an email that I don't really send. Anything to get it out!Comment
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Happens to all of us really.
I cry a lot too...
I look at his pics, replay some messages he left on my voice mail.
Eventually I fall asleep.
Sometimes you just need to let it out.
/hugs♡ ~~~~ 'When you find something worth fighting for, you never give up' ~~~~ ♡Comment
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I'm actually having one of those nights tonight. I just cry, and read emails and letters he's sent me, things like that. I also look through pictures of us together. Sometimes I'll send him an email even though he's asleep and won't get it until he wakes up. Nights like tonight make me hate the 6 hour time difference even more.Comment
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