He rationalizes EVERYTHING

[cymlee]

DO YOU YOURSELF SEE THE IRONY of this? You wish he was more independent? do you even know whats being independent is? you ur self are being dependent on him far more than anything else.

I am being really blunt here, it may come across as negativity to you. no guy would want to handle the constant stress a person like you put on him. you just cant let himself be for 4 days on his own. you are being a nagging person. GET HELP please.
You should find yourself. get help PLEASE. its for your own good, give HBB his life, and try to make a life for yourself.

"I wish he was more independent." In making time for things other than his relationship with you, he is being independent. By always feeling that you need to hear from him and basing your happiness on his response, you are being very dependent. Perhaps independence is something you need to learn.