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    #1

    He is so cranky!

    I'm visiting my SO at the moment and we've spent the last week with his family and I'm off to Germany in a couple of days. It's been really lovely with his family. We went on a road trip and everything. However... My SO has had mood swings all week. He gets super impatient with me for little things and has this tone as if I'm a five year old. He apologizes afterwards but it keeps coming.
    I have pointed it out to him that I didn't like to be spoken to like that but well... It happened again this morning. I asked him if something is bothering him but he says no. I tried to be tolerant because everybody has a bad day now and then but he found a "reason"to snap at me basically every day this week and I'm getting tired of it. Anyone else experienced something like this and advice how I can handle this?
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    #2
    I know I start to get tired of being around people and start to get snappy like that. Maybe that's what's going on? You've been around each other 24/7 and now every little thing is bothering him?

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      #3
      Like lucybell said, it could be just the fact that he's tired of being around people (in general, not only you) and it could also be that he's come to the realization you'll be leaving soon and it's bothering/stressing him...

      I'm usually a really nice and caring person, but when something I don't like is about to happen and I can't change/stop/fix it, I get cranky and moody and I snap at people I love over the silliest things... i get really frustrated over small things I usually don't care about.

      “Laughing like children, living like lovers, rolling like thunder under the covers”

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        #4
        Maybe you could try planning something nice for him to get him out of a grumpy mood? Like cook him dinner, ectect. :]
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          #5
          My SO can get really crabby when things don't go his way. Maybe that's just what he's feeling? He wants you to stay and he's upset that you're leaving and maybe he just wants some alone time with you instead of all this time with his family. I don't have much advice for you, I usually just wait until it passes and that works for us. I say go out, just the two of you, and do something for a day. What works for my SO is that I distract him from whatever he is stressing about, and his bad mood passes. Have fun and best wishes!
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            #6
            Thanks for all your comments. The situation has made quite an unexpected turn so I'm going to close his thread. Thanks again.

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