Could you be with someone...

[lucybelle]

Who was bisexual, assuming you are not?

This came up on another forum I post on. I was amazed by some of the answers. Me? I don't care. Past is past and as long as I have a monogamous relationship I don't care how much eye candy the SO has (50% of the population, or 100%!)

[Rach321]

Yeah, totally not a problem for me either.

[leonsfangirl]

Nope, I don't see why it would be an issue.

[kittyo9]

I would be fine with that. A monogamous relationship is still a monogamous relationship!

[ioanna]

I'd be okay with it. Like everyone said, monogamous is monogamous,. Add to that, i already enjoy pointing his attention at nice ladies walking down the street, wouldn't mind looking at pretty guys together too

[Sora1101]

I'd be fine with it, as long as they told me up front and we agreed that even though they swing both ways that they would only be with me. there's really no difference as long as you understand that your partner might crave being with the same sex from time to time, and that they understand that unless you both agree on it they will only be with you.

[Shepard-Fowkes]

My SO and I are both bisexual and it's never been an issue.

[Zephii]

I'd be fine with it, as long as they weren't one of those dicks who are all "Oh I need to have one of each gender... I want the freedom to play around". I'm having none of that!

[megfashion]

absolutely fine. the SO doesn't care one bit, in fact it makes us a little closer (if we see a girl who is large chested we may discuss it... :P )

it doesnt cause a rift, it doesnt mean any cheating is going to happen, why would it? its just like liking the opposite gender... just you like both genders...

[Dezface]

I'm unsure. There's a few reasons but the main one being I'd feel like he'd always want something I can't give him. Maybe he wouldn't but it would be an insecurity and it could cause a problem.

[faith_patience_believe]

Well I'm gonna come in on the other side of this. No, I don't think I could. Before everyone freaks out, no, I'm not going to hate on those who are bisexual or homosexual or anything else, its just that I couldn't see myself being ok with being romantically involved with someone who was interested in both sexes. I could be great friends with them and treat them as I would anyone else. I just could not enter a relationship with them. I think its my strong Christian religion that causes me to feel this way. But again, this in no way means I hate anyone. Everyone deserves love. And I accept them the way they are.

If I have offended anyone, I apologize, I just thought I'd give my opinion to the question since it was different than the rest posted so far.

[lucybelle]

Well I'm gonna come in on the other side of this. No, I don't think I could. Before everyone freaks out, no, I'm not going to hate on those who are bisexual or homosexual or anything else, its just that I couldn't see myself being ok with being romantically involved with someone who was interested in both sexes. I could be great friends with them and treat them as I would anyone else. I just could not enter a relationship with them. I think its my strong Christian religion that causes me to feel this way. But again, this in no way means I hate anyone. Everyone deserves love. And I accept them the way they are.

If I have offended anyone, I apologize, I just thought I'd give my opinion to the question since it was different than the rest posted so far.

It's okay to have your own opinion!

[redapple]

Having kinda been there I struggled. Maybe it's because I have a jealous side and everyone was a 'threat' or that I just felt I couldn't give him everything he wanted. Bit yeh either way it didn't work too well for us, though it wasn't the reason the fling ended.

[Malaga]

Sexuality is a fluid thing for a lot of people, I think rather than an "either-or" outlook, or 50-50, for many people it's like a sliding scale where you could be 70% hetero and 30% gay, etc.
Anyway, one of my exes admitted to having a few gay fantasies. I found it fascinating more than anything else. I think he was more like 80/20, his same sex curiosity was limited to an occasional fantasy, while he apparently never actually felt attracted to a specific guy.

I do see how it might present a problem to people with lots of insecurities, seeing that they have 'double the competition'.

[Kanga]

No, I couldn't do it.