Short story short- I've developed trust issues in my relationship. The usual stuff- I think he's going to leave me or find someone better or perhaps cheat (though I think he'd break it off first).
An example: He's moving away with another girl I know, in the past he absent mindely called her hot and she's actually a friend of mine and is one of those people that everyone likes- so guess what? I'm terrified they are going to fall in love together! Honestly it's like all I think about. Everytime I'm with her I spot personality traits I think he'll like... It's just ridiculous!
Now my issue is that he's never done anything wrong. I just seem to have become the jealous type and I don't know what to do. I'm well aware that these kind of insecurities are my problem but should I talk to him about it? (though in this crazy lady mindset I've developed I'm scared that it will make him realise that he is in fact missing out on either the girl I talked about or other girls and leave me)
So yep help a crazy lady out... Should I talk to him tonight about it or just try and get over it?!
HELP!
An example: He's moving away with another girl I know, in the past he absent mindely called her hot and she's actually a friend of mine and is one of those people that everyone likes- so guess what? I'm terrified they are going to fall in love together! Honestly it's like all I think about. Everytime I'm with her I spot personality traits I think he'll like... It's just ridiculous!
Now my issue is that he's never done anything wrong. I just seem to have become the jealous type and I don't know what to do. I'm well aware that these kind of insecurities are my problem but should I talk to him about it? (though in this crazy lady mindset I've developed I'm scared that it will make him realise that he is in fact missing out on either the girl I talked about or other girls and leave me)
So yep help a crazy lady out... Should I talk to him tonight about it or just try and get over it?!
HELP!
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