Rant about your SO!

[ech0z]

Hmm...

He's terribly forgetful, sometimes he can't even remember things I told him two days ago! @_@

Whenever he says something to upset me, he gets self absorbed in beating himself up about it instead of trying to make me feel better. :/

Sometimes I feel like he doesn't take me seriously... I know he does, he just has a strange way of showing it..


I still love the man to death, but sometimes he just drives me nuts! XD

[Veiled_Dreamer]

Okay, these are all the things that annoy me about him. >.> <.< =D I guess the list of things that don't annoy me would be longer, so. =P

Duuude, I am so much more talkative than him. It's just how it is. I'm a ranter, he's a "oh well, better luck next time." person, so I'll pour out my heart in like half a page of IMs, and all he says is "Hmm. You're right to think that. I can understand." Granted, I told him he didn't have to read it all, he just had to skim, because mostly I just feel like putting it into words. >.> And I type over a 100 words a minute, I can hardly expect him to keep up. But it would be nice if he did a better job pretending. XD Since I know he knows how to listen because when we have a normal conversation he participates in it too. =P

We talked about this one and he was so apologetic and is working hard to fix it. I used to always be the one that said "how are you?", etc, and I would never get the same question back. If I wanted to tell him something bad had happened to me today, I had to bring it up myself. And then I felt like I was burdening him. But he is SO good about this, really, he is. Especially since I have anxiety crap and I get paranoid easily about nothing. It's hard for me to believe people care about me, so you can see how this plays out for us- if I'm feeling "shaky" (our word for I might panic soon) then I almost always ask if he's mad at me. And he always says, "Of course not. Why would I be?" I feel bad though, because I know it has to get annoying, and I know he doesn't fully understand why I ask that question, especially since we've agreed to tell each other whenever we're angry. But this one is more me than anything, and he does a good job of just being quiet and *holding* me (haha, gotta love asterisk cuddling =P) when I'm getting all freaky, which helps me more than him trying to reason.

Grr, sometimes his friends. >.> He has a self-proclaimed "no social life" and he only has a very few close friends. So I'm excited that he goes out with them when he can, but it always seems like he's going out somewhere with a girl. XD He went on a day trip to a theme park with his friend that he used to really like and told me he still considers beautiful. A few months ago when his feelings were wavering a little, he actually went on a DATE (he told me, so it wasn't cheating- we were having a really rough spot) with a girl, but he has since decided he does not want to be with her, so I'm not threatened. And then his ex who cheated on him and I know he would never take back, even if she wants him to, but he still hangs out with her. And possibly his other, long distance ex who still has very strong feelings for him and is actually planning to maybe move there sometime. So when he says something about her being gorgeous on Facebook, it really makes me see red sometimes. Butttttttt on the other hand I know that he thinks I am the prettiest/cutest of all so that resolves that issue. XD

His reaction to our lack of official. We are lovers, and we are "together"/"with" each other, and I love him dearly and vice versa, and he has to end things with me before he goes on to someone else, but we aren't a... couple, per se. Sometimes he makes references to that. "It really bothers me when couples make out in public. I mean, I totally would, but I'm not a couple, so..." I don't know, maybe things like that are his way of trying to say he wishes I was there so he could consider us a "couple." Or it could be the fact that he is no where near as sentimental as me, rofl.

[Yaaamiii]

Things he does that annoy me...lol o.O I really can't think of much...anything that he has ever done that might have bothered me I have told him about and he's always done his best to fix o.o; I love him to death for it...it always makes me realize that he actually cares...and tries. The only thing I can think of that used to bother me was that he was never able to express his emotions. He still can't but I came to terms with that a long time ago and have come to accept him as he is. If he isn't emotional, he isn't. Not a big deal at all. The reason I once had a problem with it was because I myself am a very emotional person. I think I'm too emotional jaja! And well, he isn't. So I used to think my feelings were one sided. But they aren't as far as I know XD So up till now nothing he does drives me nuts. :P Or I'm just not remembering?

[ginaxnj]

I only thought of one thing that he does that really drives me crazy..
whenever we're on aim and he says well I'm gonna get in bed and just signs off and I'm typing goodnight to him, so by the time I get to send it, hes signed off.. it's like damn you in that big of a rush to get to bed, let me just say goodnight to you!

[uk_girl]

Current annoyance. Stupid bag of toss PS3. OMG. I am a video games widow. I am going to put crisps in it so it doesn't work for a bit so I can get some attention round here. GRrrrrrrrr...

I don't care about COD you idiotface. Lol.

Edit : Ha just realised crisps = potato chips. Tut.
Edit 2 : I'm sure COD is a fish, not a stupid game tut.

[Andy]

Current annoyance. Stupid bag of toss PS3. OMG. I am a video games widow. I am going to put crisps in it so it doesn't work for a bit so I can get some attention round here. GRrrrrrrrr...

I don't care about COD you idiotface. Lol.

Edit : Ha just realised crisps = potato chips. Tut.
Edit 2 : I'm sure COD is a fish, not a stupid game tut.

Lmao! Wow, now THAT'S a rant right there! That's how it's done! Love it!

[MadMolly]

"Molly, I'll be there in 3 hours! Yay!"
"Noo... you're coming tomorrow, aren't you?? I can't see you today!"
"Ooooh yeah, it is tomorrow..."

-3 hours later-

"ZOMG I FORGOT ABOUT MY FLIGHT!"
"It's tomorrow, remember?"
"Oh yeah..."

[Andy]

"Molly, I'll be there in 3 hours! Yay!"
"Noo... you're coming tomorrow, aren't you?? I can't see you today!"
"Ooooh yeah, it is tomorrow..."

-3 hours later-

"ZOMG I FORGOT ABOUT MY FLIGHT!"
"It's tomorrow, remember?"
"Oh yeah..."

Lol!! Is that true??!

[uk_girl]

Lmao! Wow, now THAT'S a rant right there! That's how it's done! Love it!

Hahaha he only got it a couple of weeks ago so he's very much in the 'honeymoon' stage so to speak! I should probably cut him some slack!

Sent him a message today asking him what he was doing tonight and got "PS3 " back. GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR.

Why do guys like video games sooooo much? Tut.

[Tanja]

Andy had a phase of playing lots of Wii when they first got it but it didn't bother me since he bever blew me off to play it. Although there were a few times when he "BRB"-ed and came back an hour later saying he got a bit carried away with the game

[uk_girl]

Andy had a phase of playing lots of Wii when they first got it but it didn't bother me since he bever blew me off to play it. Although there were a few times when he "BRB"-ed and came back an hour later saying he got a bit carried away with the game

Hahahaha he's never blown me off as such to play it, as we haven't pre-arranged to do anything like MSN/call etc but I'll text him and he'll take half an hour to reply to msgs which is my pet hate! Lol.

Though tonight he's gonna either call me and put me on loudspeaker, or put his webcam on so I can watch him. Not that it's the game i'll be watching...hehe.

[Taija]

Hahaha he only got it a couple of weeks ago so he's very much in the 'honeymoon' stage so to speak! I should probably cut him some slack!

Sent him a message today asking him what he was doing tonight and got "PS3 " back. GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR.

Why do guys like video games sooooo much? Tut.

I wouldn't say it's just a guy thing. Me and Jesse both love video games, but I'm certainly the one who's more obsessed with them. :P There are times when I end up playing something, uh, a couple of hours more than I was supposed to (), but since we get to talk so much every day, he hasn't really minded.

[Andy]

Hahaha he only got it a couple of weeks ago so he's very much in the 'honeymoon' stage so to speak! I should probably cut him some slack!

Sent him a message today asking him what he was doing tonight and got "PS3 " back. GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR.

Why do guys like video games sooooo much? Tut.

Ouch. Not the reply you were expecting then?

Andy had a phase of playing lots of Wii when they first got it but it didn't bother me since he bever blew me off to play it. Although there were a few times when he "BRB"-ed and came back an hour later saying he got a bit carried away with the game

Harsh! It was actually only when I went to dinner and my Dad or brother asked me to play a game with them after w'd finished in my defence

Isn't that just the best smiley ever btw!

[MadMolly]

Yes, hahaha! Hopefully he won't actually forget it today!

[uk_girl]

Ouch. Not the reply you were expecting then?

Well I was expecting it - but I would still rather he MSN'ed or rang me!!!!!

I called him but he was on CoD and was playing it as we were chatting so not really concentrating. Then he paused it as he kept dying or something and sounded really bored on the phone went talking to me. So I quickly ended the call. SO ANNOYED. Tut.