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    #16
    Originally posted by Kiyama View Post
    I sounds to me as if you have gotten some kind of cold feet. There is no real reason to go home. Your sister is pregnant now so it'll be a few months until the baby is actually there and you say you aren't really that close so it seems you're looking for excuses to pack up your stuff and leave.
    The question is what causes these feelings and what you can do about it. In the end only you can decide whether you really don't want to stay in Florida or if you could improve your situation there and that the fact that you're with your SO outshines the bad stuff. Would it really make you happy to go back home and what would be the consequences?
    Take your time to think about it but if you make a decision, make sure you do it for the right reasons.
    It would kill me because I wouldn't be with my SO, but then again I don't really have a life here. I can't get a job, have no money other than what my parents send me, no medical or anything, and I can't attend college here for another year until I'm considered a Florida resident. Like litterally I have no life here other than sitting here because no matter how hard I try I can't get a job or anything.
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      #17
      Originally posted by MissVampyxo View Post
      It would kill me because I wouldn't be with my SO, but then again I don't really have a life here. I can't get a job, have no money other than what my parents send me, no medical or anything, and I can't attend college here for another year until I'm considered a Florida resident. Like litterally I have no life here other than sitting here because no matter how hard I try I can't get a job or anything.
      It is similar to me in when in Holland. I found myself centered around waiting for him to come home Mon-Fri. I decided to make myself more happy by adding some new interests. I started watching the cooking shows and trying out new recipes. I started taking long walks and bike rides to explore or just relax with some tunes. I got more diligent with my workouts. I joined a few more forums. Now, when I go back there I have made some new friends. I hope that the more that I am there the more connections I can make. When I am "home" and where my "life" is, I feel even lonelier.
      "Remember not only to say the right thing in the right place, but far more difficult still, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment. "
      Benjamin Franklin

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        #18
        Originally posted by MissVampyxo View Post
        No we aren't married yet but I don't know what that would have to do with anything. He is already and still on his parents' medical and insurance and I obviously can't get on that since I'm not their family nor do I have the money to get my own insurance. I can't get financial aid because I haven't stayed a full year to be considered a Florida resident to apply for it. I just don't see how I would be able to get any help whatsoever with no job and living with his parents.
        If you arent married, i would see you moving back home as a non issue. At your age, you cant support yourselves, maybe the time just isnt right to be living together. There are always going to be obstacles to overcome.
        And i am not talking about financial aid for school. Go to social services. Google the city you are in and social services. make an appointment to go talk to someone. You have no income and no one supporting you financially. There are government programs like work first, medicaid, etc that can help you get on your own feet instead of relying on his parents.
        everything happens for a reason. We may never find out what that reason is/was, but there is a reason.

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